I got drunk and had sex with one of my guy friends 3 weeks ago no condom was used. i took a blood test at my doctors and it came back positive but the EPT was negative wich is more accurate?I am really scared this is my first year of college. This is the only guy i have had sex with in 4 months so it has to be his. I have been friends with this guy for three years and kinda dont know what to say.
2006-09-15 08:06:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well this is a complicated situation but you are going to have to sit down and talk to this guy about what's going on. Be straight forward and honest. You also need to think about what you are going to do. Are you going to have the baby or not? You are going to have to be responsible now and hopefully your friend will be mature about this. If worse comes to worse your can always speak with a counselor or social worker who has the appropriate resources that will be able to help you with decision making and other various issues that may come up. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-09-15 09:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by valentinegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blood test at the doctor is more accurate. With EPT, it usually states that if the test is negative and you still get symptoms and think you are pregnant that you should try the test again another time. In any case, if the blood test states that you are pregnant, go tell that boy. You did not get pregnant all by yourself. If he is your friend, he will work through it with you, instead of getting mad at you and blaming you for it. If you were drunk then he could not have been too drunk to to not know what he was doing because if you were both drunk, you would not have had sex. Both of you would have probably just passed out on the bed. Instead of sitting there asking a stupid question like what should you do, go tell him. I hope you will think twice about drinking too much the next time. Next time, the situation could be different and instead of having sex with a friend, it could be rape. You people just don't learn. Why do you destroy your lives getting pregnant when you have the opportunity, unlike a lot of people, to go to college and create a better life for yourselves? It is just sad.
2006-09-15 15:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What blood test. Pregnancy, HIV, STD's ?
That's foolish to not wear a condom? NOW WHAT?
The blood test is accurate. If you are pregnant, this guy is not going to have any affect on your situation. The only way he gets involved is after a paternity test.
You need to solve motherhood and school. He is having a hard enough time tucking his pecker in his pants. Don't look to him for answers.
Now you have someone else to be responsible to, not just yourself.
2006-09-15 15:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The blood test is the most accurate. Looks like you and he are going to be parents. Best of luck.
2006-09-15 15:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by troythom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let see you say "When we were drunk and slept together we used no protection. Because of this i am pregant with your baby since your the only guy I've been with in 4 months" Any other questions? O you should double check with your doctor if your unsure of if your pregent thn say something. Since it's his you have to tell him so
2006-09-15 15:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Miss k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Home test sometimes lie, blood test dont. He knew what could happen having unprotected sex. Tell him he needs to be there to help you out, everyone needs support in pregnancy.
2006-09-15 15:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you made an adult decision to have sex with no condom so now it's time to have an adult conversation. you can either take care of it yourself if that is what you want to do, or tell him and have the baby. hope you learn from your mistake but good luck with whatever happens.... everything will be okay just follow your heart.
2006-09-15 15:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by shortnsweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blood test is more accurate, have another on taken just to make sure.
2006-09-15 15:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to say but I'm pregnant with your child and you will be helping out! A little advice don't drink if you can't handle it.
2006-09-15 15:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by Honey Eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough situation. you have to tell him. Its gonna be really difficult, but you have to just sit him down and tell him exactly whats up. If hes a good guy friend, he won't just abandon you in this. Good luck.
2006-09-15 15:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋