Is it real bad that I dont look forward to my partner coming home, He is away all week (Mon am- Fri pm)?
2006-09-15 08:05:32 · 12 answers · asked by Marie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He drives long haul tractor trailer. We may have grown apart for other reasons
2006-09-15 08:12:22 · update #1
From my point of view it's not bad nor good, see maybe you're already used to his schedule, but it's always nice to make the other person feel special with simple or small details and vise versa. But if when you're with him you don't feel anything at all maybe something is dying you might want to get out of your rutines do different stuff together.
2006-09-15 09:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by jollyrancher 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs some time alone. If you feel that you need a bit of freedom for the week, then that is natural. However, if you always feel this way, then it may be time to re-evaluate your relationship. It's not a good sign if you never miss your partner. A week away from a partner can be good, a desire to be away from the person always is bad. Good luck.
2006-09-15 08:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you pleased and happy with your partner? If you said yes, I would worry if you are not looking forward to him coming home. Are you overworked, or bored with the relationship? Try to put some spark back into the situation. Maybe then you would anticipate the return visit.
2006-09-15 08:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good time to end this relationship. The next thing you are going to do is get involved with another guy and then have a bigger problem. If you are not looking forward to seeing him then the spark is missing.
2006-09-15 08:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by robsnor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. depends. do u mean, it doesn't matter to u when he comes in cuz u trust him and love him no matter what?? or do u mean that u wish he would never come home!!! that's a bad sign.
if u are in a bad relationship, which mean, anything negative: u feel bad about urself, u feel bad about him, u don't like him, u don't like urself, u fight a lot, u feel unappreciated, useless, u feel he is useless, etc etc.. ANYTHING negative.. it is better for both of u to call it quits. remember, a relationship should be *positive*, and benefit both of you to become Better people, better partners, lovers, etc etc. u have to challenge each other, and take care of each other.
good luck, i hope that u figure things out. being happy is more important than having a guy.. it's worth it to wait for the Right one.
2006-09-15 08:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'd say so, if it's been going on for awhile now. Most couples that are apart like that look forward to seeing each other.
2006-09-15 08:16:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sounds like there are some issues here. Good luck with them.
2006-09-15 08:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no because he probably doesn't look forward to going home either if he is gone so many days
2006-09-15 08:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure how to answer this
2006-09-15 08:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by fancey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes... seems like it would be.
2006-09-15 08:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋