Why do you stay faithful and monogamous to your partner?
A) Afraid to get caught?
B) Afraid to lose them?
C) Dont want to hurt them?
D) Feel like they are all you want and you have no interest in anyone else?
E) Comfortable in Your Relationship?
E) Other? (Explain)
If they wouldn't find out, there would be no consequences, and you were given the opportunity, Would you cheat??
2006-09-15 07:52:27 · 48 answers · asked by Goya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
E - I have always been the kind to believe in "treat others as you wish to be treated" and I certainly wouldn't want another to be unfaithful to me.
No matter the consequences...I would never cheat! Still gotta look at myself in the mirror everyday and live by my choices :)
2006-09-15 07:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by beachchick_38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that people are different, no matter what relationship you get into, there will always be differences, it is these differences that will either remain as an insignificant factor or be enlarged to tear the relationship apart. A lot of relationships can be built on false love, and therefore a true sense of love does not exist, once the infatuation dies, then the person is left staring at the real person they 'fell in love' with, and they quickly realise the person they see is not who they really wanted to be with. Life is increasingly stressful and work and family pressures also tend to exaggerate differences, so people tend to identify the happiness they always wanted, a sense of happiness that they are lacking, or may have never found in their current relationship. It is something that many older people would understand, and those who have been through a few relationships. When your heart tells you and your mind as well, that you have found the one person you can be faithful to, then you know it will be at least 80% perfect and if we can achieve that, then there you will find a 'faithful relationship'.
2016-03-27 02:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you stay faithful and monogamous to your partner?
D) Feel like they are all you want and you have no interest in anyone else?
E) Comfortable in Your Relationship?
If they wouldn't find out, there would be no consequences, and you were given the opportunity, Would you cheat??
No because it would present too many problems. Besides, I'm in love with this guy, I don't want anyone else.
BUT if I was dating some guy I didn't like too much, then yeah I'd cheat on him. I would NEVER cheat on anyone I truly liked/loved.
2006-09-15 07:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's a combination of things, it's a very complex question.. i have been marry for 7 years and i have never cheated on my husband for various reasons, and there's been plenty of temptations and plenty of moments where it seemed duable, but many things stopped, my love for him, etc, but mostly fear of losing something good and amazing for a few hours of fun, or even worse for something that is not worth it, relationships are hard, and difficult to maintain, i can't imagine breaking what i have built for so long and with so much work for the unknown or just an adventure.... people cheat for different reasons some are legitimate some are not, but despite their reasons there is no justification for cheating. And in terms if i would cheat if i knew i won't get caught and stuff, i don't know it's a tough call, i think we are unfaithful creatures by nature even if it's cheating mentally, although to be honest i don't think i want right now to be touch by any other men other than my husband.
2006-09-15 08:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by sweet&crazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason that I am faithful to my husband isn't any of the answers above I am faithful because I love him and because I got married because I wanted to be committed and with him for the rest of my life I didn't get married to break those vowels or to cheat I take my marriage very serious marriage is about loving someone not to hurt them, cheat on them, lie to them marriage is about commitment even if I had the opportunity I wouldn't do it when I worked at Rite Aid I had a chance to be with my ex I told him no I'm married and I love my husband and I told him I didn't appreciate the way he was disrespecting me by asking for sex I told him to leave the store and he did I have respect for myself and I know what marriage is
2006-09-15 21:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I took an oath to be faithful good or bad. Even when I'm mad at him I still love my husband of 22 years. I just try not to put myself in a situation where something like that could happen. Yes I am attracted to other men but I make sure that I am never alone with them. I would never cheat on him because I know what the reverse feels like.
2006-09-15 08:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I love my hubby and feel like he is all I want and I have no interest in anyone else.
I could never lie to my husband and cheat. In the past we would engage in swinger type activities though. Id ask if I could be with someone. He'd say yes or no. We would both get off on it. Since it was mutual it didnt hurt anyone and actually bettered our relationship and made us closer. We have been married for almost 6 yrs now.
2006-09-15 07:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say a combination of C, D, and E. I am happy with my relationship and have no need or interest in anyone else. I would never cheat even if given the opportunity.
2006-09-15 07:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite honestly D I dont even look at other people in a relationship or sexual kind of way Im happy with my man - in answer to your second question the answer is NO I once met an ex on a train and as I stood up to leave at my station he stood up and kissed me when I was with my soon to be husband I explained again to him I was about to be married and that I was happy in my relationship and then told my soon to be hubby what happened - he trusts me and I trust him we have now been married for 6 years and have been together for 10 years we have an open an honest relationship.
2006-09-15 07:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Kazz♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F) Other. I am paranoid about sexually transmitted diseases. Monogamy greatly cuts down the risk. Ideally, I prefer that the girlfriend and myself be tested for STDs before starting a sexually active relationship.
Not so much A.
As for B, I never worry about losing a girlfriend.
Some of C. It is a violation of trust.
D and E are never an issue. One love at a time. If not right, then I get out before starting another.
2006-09-15 08:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Gin Martini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋