en dating AA males????
2006-09-15 07:47:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
If you want it, imma tell it. Black men and white women. : black men date white women for many reasons. It goes back to the history of the slave trade, white woemn were taboo. And to this day it is kind of an unspoken thing that they still are taboo. There is something about the unseen or unheard of that turns men on. .. and for another reason, white woemn put up with more bull crap from black men. Black men can get away with a whole bunch more with white women then they can with back women. (and you know this man.) Plus with black men it is like "i have arrived" when they get them a white woman. It makes them feel like they are something. Like they have won another trophy to display on their arms like a lil extra bling bling.
now im not saying all interacial couples are like this.. but some are.
Black women with white men: Well this also too goes back to the slave trad e where the white men raped the black women. Tho it might not be said, a lot of black women do think about this (especially if they are deep rooted in their history and they know about where they came from and their family blood line.)...
Then there comes the size myth... tho it might not always be a myth... but who WOULDNT want a black man who is hung like a moose?
Now granted some white men might me a little more freaky then black men (not always) but its just not worth it... They get that "superior then thou" thing going on and it can snap a sista back with the quickness.
But at the same time, you cant say that black men dont want black women. There are PLENTY of black men who only want a sista. you just have to find them... or let them find you
Again, not all interacial mixes are like this.. but some are. even with same race relationships, the same mentality can be there.
2006-09-15 08:05:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kynnie 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i think of that is via stereotype human beings have of black women persons in united statesa.. we are theory to be aggressive and unattractive. while human beings do see an attractive black lady, they right this moment attempt to declare that she's jumbled mutually an attempt to credit her solid seems to three different race. solid looking black women persons can date any race they pick - even interior the U. S.. i've got heard that many adult males of alternative races cllaim they had not at all date a black lady yet I used to get hit on by ability of white and Latin adult males each and all the time, formerly i became married. I nevertheless do get hit on, yet not as plenty. My husband additionally occurs to be white.
2016-10-15 00:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I dont where you live but I have seen plenty of both, why? Zena a friend of mine was married to a real ****** he was white and she was a virgin when they got married. He got real drunk and basically raped her. They got a divorce within a year and a half. She says she will not date a white man again. I have dated both most consider me white, I am american indian and white. I say they are all ******* at one time or another.
2006-09-15 07:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by lisapj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Black women aren't seen as status symbols. Like almost every black pro athlete goes out and dates or marries a beautiful thin white woman. The only white women I see dating black males are disgusting fat white trash, the girls that no white man wants to be seen with. I'm not being racist, that is simply my observation.
2006-09-15 07:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
A lot of white men are intimidated by Black women. they've heard the stereotypical - "They're hard to get along with, they're opinionated, they're critical, they're loud, etc." Not to mention a Black woman's reputation on her sexual prowess. So they're prone to back off. But believe me, a lot of white males are very curious about being with a Black woman.
2006-09-15 08:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by Survivors Ready? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They are not attracted to each other. As a black woman, I prefer Latino males over white and black any day.
2014-01-18 12:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Race is not a problem... its up to the people. It's ok to Love people who aren't the same color as you.
2006-09-15 07:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by tygger in pa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's been lot's of fights started by questions like this!
2006-09-15 10:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably because there aren't enough good white men.
2006-09-15 07:58:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
White men know whats good. So do Black.
2006-09-15 07:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by lecter098 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋