he thinks that the new long distance relationship is causing me to grieve, an it is unhealthy for me , becuz he thinks my boyfriend is narsacistic.can you help?
2006-09-15 07:46:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Thanks for asking the same question again. Look at my answer to your previous question! By the way, I think you are making this up. No shrink would say that!
2006-09-15 07:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by justincausejustintime 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to fine that answer to that one yourself...I would suggest that you find a new shrink...he should be giving you advise and letting you decide....not telling you what to do..he is there to advise you....or maybe he should advise you on how to compare with the process until you can figure out what you want to do...
2006-09-15 07:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Long distance is hard. I had to do that and we are still together, but we almost didnt make it. Thats hard...is it permanate?...will you live together again?......Maybe you could try having an open relationship for awhile and see if that changes anything.
2006-09-15 08:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, your therapist knows all of the details and we don't. The advice sounds legitimate to me. The quicker you move on and give yourself space to heal, the better off you will be.
2006-09-15 07:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shrinks aren't supposed to 'suggest' anything. they're supposed to ask you questions which you can find YOUR OWN answer to.
find another shrink
2006-09-15 10:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Vancouver-snuggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A therapist would not tell you what to do.. their job is to guide you and encourage you to make your own life decisions towards a better life.
2006-09-15 08:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen to the doctor.
2006-09-15 08:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
follow your heart. ignore the doctor. do what u want.
2006-09-15 08:46:31 · answer #8 · answered by chaos4579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a second opinion.....
2006-09-15 07:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by krnsspott 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋