IMy husband is just not into sex. I feel I need it all the time. I fantasize about other men and women. What should I do?
2006-09-15 07:35:28 · 11 answers · asked by tear streaked angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It can, especially if the two in the relationship are on different levels, as in your case. You can find out why your husbands just not into sex. Do it in a non threatening way as to not put him on the defensive. You may be at a stage where you're reaching your sexual peak and more than likely his has already past.
Try to spice things up, provocative undergarments, videos, different settings (there are other rooms in the house, or go on a trip)...etc. Talk about your fantasies, find out his (we all have them).
If he once had the drive but now doesn't, maybe he needs a little help in pill form.
2006-09-15 08:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like me and my wife. Try and let him build up the excitement naturally, eventually we all get horny and hopefully he will take it out on you. Unfourtnally sex can destroy our relationships because it is a neccesity, but with a little effort and patience we might overcome it. The one thing is to not hurt yourself or him by getting with outside influences, thats the devil working, instead if that need arises, be honest and leave that relationship alone and move on..
2006-09-15 07:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by hennesseywalton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can break it real fast see a doctor before this goes any more and you feel the need to find sex some where else.
2006-09-15 13:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex can big a big make or break issue. You should talk to your husband openly and honestly about how you feel.
2006-09-15 08:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case i'd take on a girlfriend!
You may even want to get really drastic and get some toys, then one nite, w/o saying anyting to him, break them out and start pleasing yourself! Be sure to be very vocal about it, you'll be surprised at how quickly he joins you.
2006-09-15 07:38:48 · answer #5 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay faithful and see if you can get him to see a doctor for a Viagra or Cialis prescription. He problem may be medical.
2006-09-15 07:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes
2006-09-15 07:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it, husband whats sex ,all the time,and wife don't...wife wants more sex husbands don't........i believe woman crave intimacy , if I'm wrong you can email me...
2006-09-15 07:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by bull 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm ya'll need to talk cause thats not good.
2006-09-15 07:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by **What??** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does! if the sex is not good for one partner they will seek satisfaction somewhere else
2006-09-15 07:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋