Are we missing out on something. We have discussed the thaught of other people being involved which is a turn on for us both. Again is this normal and if you've tried it how did it work out. Genuine answers only please.
2006-09-15 07:24:56 · 18 answers · asked by funguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it's normal but u guys dont know nothing more then each other, so if both of u r on the same page find a couple to swing with and your girl should pick the couple out, thats a must cause it could be a problem if the man tries to. this sould only be done if the love is strong enough between u 2, oh and to the female u have to learn and know how to work your man cause u dont want to be out shine if your all he knows and he's all u know
2006-09-15 07:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that normal is just a cycle on a washing machine. Do what you both feel right in doing. I will say though that whilst the idea of others being involved turns you on in your head, the reality and the aftermath could be a whole different ball game. Sometimes fantasies should remain just that.
2006-09-15 07:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry if the thought never gets past the ideas stage. Polyamory does sound exciting, but polyamorous relationships are no more stable than regular relationships.
If you're into finding ways of turning each other on, why not explore different ideas than bringing other people in? Try some sex games. Try roleplay. Experiment with toys, latex - whatever else is available.
Otherwise, you're both perfectly, healthily normal as you are.
2006-09-15 07:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by fiat_knox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say stay away from the swinging and menage stuff. it will only hurt a relationship that is not completely ready for it. I would be careful to do things like that if you really love each other. there wil always be in your mind "what if she/he likes the other person better?"" what if they are messing around while i am not there?" etc...just think long and hard about the repercussions
2006-09-15 07:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yalll wanna b swingers then thats fine (just bcareful the sexual playground is a very dangerous place) but i see nothing wrong with only havin 1 partner. u want more go to a sex shop but only u2 knows what will make u2 happy but involving more people sometimes only leads to heartbreak
2006-09-15 07:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it through; openly, honestly,.. ask each other what you both want/expect from the experience,. and what you both DO NOT want,.. assure your partner if,. and ONLY if you're sure you can back-up any assurances.
Also; talk about if you both have any fantasies you'd like to have fulfilled and any that you'd like to remain fantasies, that should NOT be fulfilled.
Be honest, fair and listen carefully to your partners wishes/desires/ideas etc,... if you value each other, you'll think it through very carefully and totally respect each others needs/wishes/desires etc etc,...
Go have fun,.. :o)
2006-09-15 07:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by wildimagination2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal to only have been with each other. DONT TRY AND FIX SOMETHING THATS NOT BROKEN by introducing others in to the relationship it may cause it to breakdown.
2006-09-15 07:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with only ever being with one person, if you've found the right person thats all that matters
2006-09-15 07:28:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kat Moonsstar 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only ever having one partner is a blessing...treasure it!
2006-09-15 09:04:58 · answer #9 · answered by Bepa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this day and age.thats very refreshing. and no you have not missed out. if you are happy with each other i think thats wonderfull.
2006-09-15 07:32:48 · answer #10 · answered by grumpcookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋