That as long as he stays at his mothers house, im not his wife ,his mother is. If he needs money for gas or whatever like food ect. She can help him with that. Am not coming out my pocket to meet his needs if he is not living as huband and wife should. i plainly said ..... "your on your own. Be a man"
2006-09-15 07:22:25 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am with you!!!!
you remind me of a joke
I'm not too sure how it goes but its about a couple recently married and the man takes of his trousers and hands them over to his new bride and tells her "put these on" and she tries but they fall off, so she says "well their too big i can't they fall off" and so he reply's "that's right and because of that you will never be the one wearing the pants in this family!!!"...so she takes of her panties and says "here try these on" so he slips them up but is only able to pull them up to his knees and tells her "I can't their too small..." and She Replies "that's right and you won't be able to get into my panties until you change your attitude"
Hahahahahahaha!!!!! .....Pretty funny no?!
2006-09-15 08:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by missme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It probably hurt his feelings, but it sounds like he needed a good kick in the a**.
My buddy was/is an alchoholic and was married for five years. His wife earned all the money and took care of the housework. He drank. One morning she woke him up, said she was leaving, and to get out of bed because she was taking it with her. Now, he's been sober for 2 years, is about to graduate from college, and they are talking about getting back together (they never divorced).
It was the best thing that ever happend to him, and maybe even saved his life. Maybe now YOUR husband will get some get-up-and-go, too. Good for you. Just make sure he knows you love him still, that will take some of the sting out of what you said- but it sounded like it needed to be said.
2006-09-15 07:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing a man should know is that he is supposed to leave his mother and fathers home so that he may cleave with his wife. Second he is supposed to be your head and not the tail meaning that he is suposed to be providing to you (finances)etc...You're absolutely right it's a fact most men mature slower than women in this arena.So be a man
2006-09-15 07:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by joblo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course not he does need to start becoming a man and stop being a mommas boy. Your his wife and he needs to devote his time to you not his mother. Your his wife not her. And you shouldn't be the one supporting him (if you are) he should support you. Think of what kind of father he will be to your children (if you plan on having, or have). You need to be harsh so he can learn. The truth hurts.
2006-09-15 07:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wife has her own rights over husband, mother has her own rights over her son. A real man is the one who can differenciate between the rights of the both. If he can't do that, then you did well about what you said to him and vice versa.
2006-09-15 07:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Harry thePotter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with what you said, as long as you aren't jealous that he's spending time with his Mum for all sons are like that with their mothers. It's natural. The umbilical cord extends way beyond youth, marriage and old age. You might feel hurt yourself if your own child neglected you and listened to his/her spouse all the time.
If your husband is really a jerk, then I would have applauded at what you said. MEN!!!!!
2006-09-15 07:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I completely agree with what you said to him. It does make me wonder why he's living there to begin with. It sounds like your problems are very serious and you might want to think about calling it a day. He may always go running back to mommy and you don't need that - no one does. I hope it all works out for the best for you. :)
2006-09-15 07:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by pamela f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta say how did you marry the guy and Not see the extra tit in his mouth.I guess you were going to change him huh.Well now you're seeing that ain't happening and trying to bail.I don't blame you mammas boys are lame to begin with,but next time you pick a mate try not to pick someone so far down on the evolutionary ladder .
2006-09-15 07:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by sjwest74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your'e right once you leave the nest take care of your own family don't go running back to mommy when times get tough. Step up be a man take care of your wife.
2006-09-15 07:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you 2 r supose 2 be 1 by marriage and if
hes not gonna b a husbandthen hes just a son and your not responsible for him grow up and b a man i have 3 sonss if one of them did this to there wifes id hurt them!!
2006-09-15 07:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is a mamma's boy he will never be able to be a husband. Let mommy take care of him and the things he needs. Maybe one day he will reaize their are certain things a mommy can't can't do for him, or at least shouldn't. You were absolutely right for standing your ground. You go girl!!!
2006-09-15 07:27:31 · answer #11 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋