i am pregnet and i realy do love him and we just found out i was pregnet can yall help me i really do trust all of yall you tell me what should i do!!!!!
2006-09-15 07:18:58 · 19 answers · asked by lover_gurl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yes marry him. you go girl.
2006-09-15 07:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bling Bling 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's something that you'll have to decide for yourself so that you can be accountable for the decision. Just some advice -- make sure that the both of you are ready to get married. Being pregnant alone is not a good reason to get married, that will just complicate an altogether complicated situation.
2006-09-15 14:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Trillian 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should rush into marriage. Just because you are pregnant is not a good enough reason to get married. There are so many divorces nowadays that I don't think anyone should rush into something they are not sure is going to work. My husband and I were together for 5 years before we got married. We were both very sure of marriage before we committed to it. I am the type of person that doesn't believe in divorce unless it is absolutely necessary.
2006-09-15 14:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Renee25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can make that decision, I can't tell you to marry him or not b/c I don't know you, but remember that If you are going to marry him do It for the right reason and not b/c your pregnant and everyone Is pressuring you both into getting married. I wish the best for you and your b/f and I hope you both make a good decision for yourselfs and your un-born child. ((CoNgRaTs)) and I wish you and your un-born baby the best.
2006-09-15 14:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by twofroggiesand1princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol-very funny...pregnet-hihi
2006-09-15 15:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by Caro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok! We cannot decide for you whether you should get married or not! Come on! If you love him marry him. But the biggest mistake you can do is marry him if only for the sake of the baby.
2006-09-15 14:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by I smile because of them ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't unless you do it for the right reasons and you're really sure u can make it work bc u could end up doing more harm 2 your baby than good bc 75 - 90% of marriage end in divorce or annullment i'm speaking from experience 2 marriages & i'm just29
2006-09-15 14:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by virginia m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. There's is no need not marrying him. If he wants to marry you, go ahead, dont let anything hold you back. My Ex-GF is 6 weeks pregnant now and we broke up on sunday, cos she said i was bothering her a lot and she doesn't need to be bothered by anybody. I dont know what's wrong?
2006-09-15 14:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by PeaceMaker!!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about this way.... 5 years from now... do you see yourself still happily married to this man? what about 10 years? does he feel the same way about you? not sure... ask him. remember to take into consideration whether he is ready to be married!
the most important factor is the baby!... getting married isn't always the best choice so think about this carefully and talk to your bf first.
2006-09-15 14:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by Patti B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married because of a kid that is so dumb when girls do taht, you obviously slept with him, I don't believe that women should get married because of a baby on the way, sometimes it just ends in a divorce
2006-09-15 14:52:20 · answer #10 · answered by Just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you having doubts probably not. Why, would you want others to make such a life altering decision for you? Come on this is really a joke, your just terribly bored, right!
2006-09-15 14:26:35 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋