i have a crush and i want to know how to tell him. we go to school together, but he always comes ot school with a frown on his face. hes always mad sad and depressed. we email and instant message, but whenever i ask him a question, he always leaves and his sister gets on. i need to ask HIm the questions, not her. we acnt talk to eachother out of school cuz he lives in a different city. i want to know how to tell him i like him, or at leats get it off my chest. i LOVE the guy. hes to DIE for. i could drool over him all night. im alwasy busy so i cant go see the soccer games hes in. i really want ot know how to tell him i like him, or at leats know what he feels about me. im so sad. i feel horrible... :(
2006-09-15 07:18:09 · 14 answers · asked by chipmunky36 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
THE NEXT TIME YOU GET HIM ON THE COMPUTER JUST BLURT IT OUT ! THAT YOU WANNA BE WITH HIM!
THE STRAIGHT FORWARD APPROACH IS ALWAYS THE BEST ! WHETHER HE RETURNS YOUR FEELINGS OR NOT , AT LEAST YOU WILL HAVE SAID WHAT YOU NEEDED TO , AND YOU CAN MOVE ON , BUT HE WILL PROBABLY RECIPROCATE..GOOD LUCK.....GR1M
2006-09-15 07:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by (\ G®1M R34|Dê® /) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this type of thing should be done in person instead of over the internet.
Why don't you write him a nice letter and leave it in his locker? Or better yet just ask him if he can meet you after school on a spacific day and talk to him then? Things like this seeem really complex at a younger age, but after a while you'll get used to it and know how to tell someone you are interested. I would just come out and say "So, I really like you" It's strange, for a moment, he will say sometthing strange for a moment and either you'll start seeing more of each other, remain friends or stop talking, but at least it's over with.
2006-09-15 14:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by chickennosenshi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being young isn't fun sometimes. I have often said I wish I knew then what I know now. My advice: Go for it! Right now it is a 50-50 chance. Quit hurting your heart. Come straight out and ask. If he sez yes, then you have a guy, if he sez no, then pick yourself up, brush him off your list, and find someone else. I'd be willing to bet that someone else out there feels the same way about you! Look around.
2006-09-15 14:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by Bigdog 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how do u know he comes with a frown on his face when u dont go to school together????? dont ask him questions cuz he will probably not tell u anything just talk to him for a while and gain a closer relationship and then ask him
2006-09-15 14:24:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds very shy. or at worst, clueless. Be straight up, and make the first move. Have lunch together. Speak to him after school, frown or no. Take charge!
2006-09-15 14:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I can really tell what you see in him! He's broody, moody, grumpy, & he won't talk to you. What a catch!
Honey, you deserve better than that, set your sights on a guy that can & will give you some attention, & make your day a happy one.
Cheers!
2006-09-15 14:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i love him..but i cant take time out 2 meet him at da soccer games...
now i love some1..how do i find a way ???
miss...........?????????? hellooo
u drool over him all night....u miss him..love him...he's worth dieing....
now after all dis...1 person has 2 let him know dat some1 cares 4 him...loves him....& if u cant do it..den WHO WILL ??
where theres a will theres a way....always memba dat
if u really like him.............den forget da fact wat frown face he has or sad he may be...
just hold his hand a day...& talk 2 him wat u have in ur heart....direct approach is da only way
u need 2 meet him up at soccer field...or during ur breaks...
unless u do it..no miracle ..no friends can help...
talk 2 him...
2006-09-15 14:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi chipmunky...
I bet you anything you like that in one year from now you won't even be able to remember this guy's name.
We all get crushes on people - all through our life. But we are like butterflies, flying from one to another.
It's what we humans do.
Silly isn't it?
But fun.
2006-09-15 14:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm i think you should just tell him how you really feel at school or when you see him he needs to know befor u dont get a change. i know its seem hard to tell him how you feel but just do it and eveything will work out ok..
Good Luck
2006-09-15 14:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. he already has a girl friend (don't harass me anymore about this)
2. he doesnt'; like you, at all
you do know one time you thought you wre talking to him but wre actually talking to his sister? haha!
he says he doesn't want you e-mailing him, he told me that he sent you an e-mail saying stop e-mailing me, i'm serious, not making it up
3. bi
2006-09-15 16:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by ~Pom!~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋