Is there something wrong with the way I think?

Question

I don't believe in being friends or hanging out with someone who has hurt you, or wronged you, because it brings back the painful memories.

To SOMEONE, I gave that advice to AWISH, but i was thinking of what other people might think about it.

Answer 1

No, that is fine. If you want to completely let go of the past then that would be a good thing to do.

Answer 2

It sounds like a generally good policy, but don't make it absolute. Sometimes good people make mistakes and do or say bad and hurtfull things. Never giving them another chance might mean you miss out on some really great times. Of course, most people who hurt you will do it again, so each situation is its own judgment call.

Answer 3

Nope, it's perfectly sensible to keep people like that from your life. Don't listen to people who try to get you to make the same mistake again and again by allowing them in to hurt you again. Be a good friend and surround yourself with good friends and your life will be much easier.

Answer 4

hey! In your own words...

" hard as it is, if the relationship isn't fulfilling, stimulating, or pleasing, you need to practice extreme self-care and end it. Your friends affect all areas of your life, including your health and happiness. Choose them well! "

I think you already know the answer to your question...

Answer 5

Their is much healing in forgiveness. But there is a time when walking away is best. Follow your heart. There is pain everywhere.

Answer 6

Nothing wrong with that at all, sometimes we have to do whatever it takes to deal with our feelings.

Answer 7

We are, non of us are, guilty of our actions !!