I was working to jobs in a factory on the weekdays and a waitress on weekends i quit the waitressing job and he flipped and stole all the money we had so i chased him from house to house but he would already be gone when i caught up to him he went crazy on me and sent me to the hospital and i sent him to jail but then i did not give him a chance to explain himself or even try to work things out
2006-09-15 07:03:22 · 12 answers · asked by shadys_gurl4202004 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
the minute it became physical the marriage was over.
there is never an excuse for violence in a relationship.
2006-09-15 07:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by bgdadyp 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn' t mention what he was doing, i.e working two jobs as well or just being a bum. There is no reason for someone to go crazy for something like that. I have worked two jobs at one time before and it takes a toll on you. So yes you should have left he stole all the money. Hope you get better. Good Luck
2006-09-15 07:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Renee V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Violence needs no explanation, because the obvious actions are the explanation. If you need an explanation here it is:
1. I am crazy and I need help! You cannot help me, you are not a doctor or therapist!
2. I will hurt you when I feel powerless, because it makes me feel powerful for a little while if i hurt you!
3. Abuse is taught and learned by abusers. For the cycle of abuse to be broken we need to reform as a society. If you are not a social reformer on par with Martin Luther King, Jesus Christ, or Ghandi, anotherwords a Saint!, then you cannopt help!!!!!!
4. Women who stay in abusive relationships are often murdered!
5. Their children are often sexually, physically and emotionally abused as well!
6. You need to seek counseling, in all likelihood to help you see why you should not tolerate abuse!
God Bless and Good Luck! Never take him back and always use birth control!
2006-09-15 07:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you're going to work things out with someone who stole your money and led you on a chase, and sent you to the hospital? He had a chance to explain himself before he took the money and split. Am I missing something here?
2006-09-15 07:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saving your life and self-respect is more important than trying to work things out with an abusive spouse.
2006-09-15 09:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing...doesn't sound to me like he was in any shape to talk...other than with his fists.
Stay away from him...or you may invite further problems...he obviously needs a lot of help.
2006-09-15 07:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ivyvine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl....hell yeah you should have left him....anyone that would lay a hand on you and steal your money you need to stay away from..
with friends like that who needs enemies.....damn girl....
2006-09-15 07:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Su 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!! Do it NOW! This time you were only injured. Next time you could very likely be KILLED!
2006-09-15 07:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um.. from what you said there absolutely you shoul dhave left him.
2006-09-15 07:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by negativex83 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did right-just don't feel bad and go back.-like what so often happens...
2006-09-15 07:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by boilerrat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋