My first true love contacted me and now my ex man is begging me to come back i dont know what to do. im stuck between 2 people and my first true love we couldnt be together cuz his family dont like me but he still wants me what should i do?
2006-09-15 06:52:05 · 18 answers · asked by italianpr86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your ex is physically abusive. Regardless of what you decide about your first love, please do not go back to the man who hits you.
2006-09-15 06:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking - go with the first true love. I have been a victim of domestic abuse and there is no feeling like taking control again. If you have not realized it your ex wants you back to gain control over you again. All he is missing is you feeling down so he can emotional and physically put the boot in!
Move on and get a better life you sound like a nice person do not ever let any man treat you like that ever! You have down the hardest bit and that is leave keep it up and meet this 1st love it does not mean you have to be togther forever but it will be a great distraction as you move on!
Good luck and promise you will not go back!
CJay
2006-09-15 06:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough ?.. Family members of the 1st love not liking you can be very hard & sounds like you have been through enough. Think about going out of the past & into the present day. The x will hit you again if you push that button again. He's not the one. Find a new guy & make a new connection & look for the opposite of what kind of guys you usually date.
2006-09-15 06:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...first things first...great job on leaving the man that hit you...now though why would you even consider taking him back..this guy does not love you!!!no man could hit the woman that he loves...ask any man out there...as long as they are truly a man and not a scared little boy that can only hit women!now i am not saying that the other man is the one for you but it would not hurt to see if he could treat you like a real man should treat a woman..and as for his family not caring too much for you...there are two people in a relationship...if the two of you are good for each other they will have to deal with it!!good luck and hope it all works out..but remember the other guy is history he is not a option!!
2006-09-15 06:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by noseyroseysillywillie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I want to say Congratulations for leaving the man who hit you. Since you were strong enough to leave him, I hope you are strong enough to stay gone. About the other guy. I say give it a chance. It seems like he might be at the point where he doesn't care what his family thinks anymore or maybe you just need time to yourself...But no matter what, don't go back to your ex who hit you.
2006-09-15 06:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left someone beause the hit you.
You left because he hit you.
He hit you so you left.
HE HIT you!!!
Why would you ever, ever, ever think of going back to him?
HE HIT you!!!
My advice would be to go live on your own and don't date for a while. It seems to me like you feel that you need a man in your life to justify your existance. You have to break this way of thinking. You are a person, with somethning to offer and give. You don't need to be with someone to be alive. Find out about yourself. Take some time off from dating - join a club... take a class.. or go see a bunch of movies or sometning... but don't date!!!!
Then... someone will come along and you will enjoy their company but you will also enjoy being alone and with jsut yourself.
2006-09-15 07:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the guy that hit you. Dont ever go back to him. As far as the first love, give it time..... get over the ex that hit you before you start a new relationship
2006-09-15 06:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back to a man who hit you enough said if the 1st guy loved you he would have found a way around the family thing
2006-09-15 06:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by poconewyorkwanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer should be easy....stay away from the guy who hit you. That is not love! If he truly loved you he would protect you at all cost not hurt you himself. Move on before you really get hurt and don't look back. No woman deserves to be treated that way!
2006-09-15 06:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever put up with someone who hits you! It escalates from there. Trust me....I know. Maybe you need some time alone to find out who YOU are. If this guy really loves you, he'll still be there. If not, you avoided another bad situation.
2006-09-15 06:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you want to go the person who hits you all the time.do u like it?these types of guys are like that only .when u r with them ,they will ill-treat you and when u r away they beg you to come back.they cant see their girls to stay away and they do everything to get them back.plz dont go back to ex.better take some time for your true love and see for some time.if everything ok then why not?
2006-09-15 06:59:38 · answer #11 · answered by kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋