Can i really be pregnant?

Question

i lost my virginity on july 28 [the condom broke].On august 3 i vomit then the sleeping alot,peeing,vomitting, headaches,mood swings begin to come.My period had came on august on 11 and it was light and i had mild cramps and it ended in 4 days my periods are always heavy and i stay on it for a week.I went to take a blood test came back negative.I went a week later it came back negative again.During this month i brought a pregnancy test at first I thought a blue line was going to apprear on the positive side because it started out a light blue but it appreared on the negative side.On september 5 it came again but it was just spots and had really light cramps that lasted only 2 days.On the 8 my breasts started tingling so bad something i never felt before and its off and on.My doctor told me just wait and see whats happens.I really want to be pregnant cause i know me and my bf can care and support the child we're old enough.Please can anyway help me and dont lie just be honest.

Answer 1

You could be pregnant. However if you went to take a blood test and it came back neg, then you are not pregnant. If you have had sex in the past fourteen days then you need to go back to the doctor. It takes about 14 days after conception for a blood test to be accurate. As far as over the counter pregnancy tests they never work for me. I was about three months pregnant and the over the counter pregnancy test said that I was not pregnant.

Answer 2

You are probably not pregnant. Get on the pill if you are having sex....having a baby when you are not ready will ruin your life and you will ultimately be a single teengage mom that can never go to college, make a decent living and a poor role model for any child. We only have one life that we know of, don't ruin it and don't create a bad one for someone else. You are thinking this is a good idea b/c you are young and nieve. I promise 10 years from now, you wil look back and thank your lucky stars that you were not pregnant.

Answer 3

blood tests are usually more acurate than store tests in the beginning. So if you've had 2 blood tests negative your probably not pregnant. The period problems you are mentioning are probably because of your stress and emotions of wanting to be pregnant. Just be patient, plus have you two discussed thid life altering matter? If he really wanted you to get pregnant would he have used a condom. Besides you just lost your virginity, enjoy it before you bring on more responsibilities.......that is just my opinion

Answer 4

How many negative tests do you need to accept that you are not pregnant. I'm assuming you are pretty young, you should count your blessings that your not . You have plenty of time to become a parent, it's not easy, you give up so much that you can never get back. Being a parent is a great thing when your truely ready.

Answer 5

It's hard to tell, it sounds like with your timing on having sex, I doubt you were ovulating. It may be possible but between the time you had sex and time you started your period just seems too close together for that chance of getting pregnant. (read on ovulation if you don't know much about it).....Your body could be experiencing lots of changes just from losing your virginity, i know when i lost mine my periods lightened and didn't last as long (they range from 3 to 4 days now, where as before they were 6 to 10 days)...
It's hard to tell, but really if your doctor says wait, that's really all you can do. If you've had sex since then i would say there might be that possibility there now, and it's just not showing up yet. Good Luck

Answer 6

Sounds like you are stressing yourself out so much that it is causing your cycle to change. Don't stress so much about it and things will return to normal. If you want to be pregnant then why do you use a condom? Also, if a baby is what you both want then just get busy and don't stress about it...it will happen when it's time for a baby in your life.

Answer 7

Negative tests do not mean you are not pregnant. Only Positive tests, mean without a shadow of a doubt that you are.

You need to see your OBGYN and not your family doctor. He/she can give do an ultrasound and/or give you a bloodtest that checks the hormones that kick in when you are pregnant.

Just tell your OBGYN that you are concerned and they will do the rest.

Answer 8

A blood test usually is accurate. Have one again. It sounds like you have symptoms, but in fact you do have a period. You might have another kind of hormonal change - or anatomic change. Take a blood test again, by now it is bound to show.

Answer 9

I think the psychological pressure makes you think that you are pregnant. Most probably it is not. The psychological stress can alter your hormonal axis and can create these symptoms. My advise will be to keep cool and start thinking that ""OK! If I am not pregnant, its just fine. We shall try with our heart next to become pregnant.I will not cry over the spilled milk but shall only think of sweet associations I am going to have with him now"" I am fit to be a mother and I will become a mother!!!

Answer 10

The second to the last sentence was enough to know... you don't need a baby.. you are in no way mature enough. Don't worry though.. Lots of little girls fantasize about getting pregnant so their boyfriends will stay with them and they can play house. so it's normal to feel that way... but please.. don't bring a baby into this world when you are too young and incapable of caring for him/her.