My girl friend of 8 months is being so weird! when she is naked she NEVER lets me see herfrom behind. Its really starting to irritate me. Every day i tel her she is beautiful. I asked a similar question on her recently. and i got really good advice. but i need to fix this problem. she is a tiny bit thick, and i think she is insecure about it. I LOVE THICK GIRLS! someone said "maybe she has a pimply butt?". No, a wonderful backside. I tell her every day she is the most beautifulgirl in the world. I just dont see myself being with someone for the rest of my life, if they aren't comfortable being naked around me. how do i fix this. We have even talked about it, and she is still being weird. It irritates the hell out ofme
2006-09-15 06:39:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you know I used to be like that because I was very self conscious. I am personally a thick girl but all the guys think I have a nice butt but I was always afraid for anyone to look at it bear but you know I think you just grow out of that. The first couple of times you get to see her from behind dont stare at it just glance and then go on eventually she will get comfortable with u looking at it. good luck to you
2006-09-15 06:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by aeropostale_chic_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You loving her and thinking she is beautiful doesn't change the fact that maybe she doesn't. I was with my now husband for a year before I could bring myself to show him my whole naked self! I was just really insecure!! He accepted that and just loved what he got until I became comfortable enough for him to see all of me.
Maybe your girl is feeling shy about certain parts of her body and is playing shy. Just keep loving her and letting her know how very beautiful you really think she is. Be patient, some people just need time. If you love her then respect her insecurities and keep talking her up. She will eventually feel good enough about herself that you will get the whole package!
2006-09-15 06:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by XxbrooklynnxX 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she has body confidence issues that only she can get over by feeling better about herself. Maybe you should try telling her how important it is to you for her to be comfortable around you (again) and if it still doesn't work, you have to decide how important it is to see your girl from behind so you know weather or not to end this relationship.
2006-09-15 06:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wierd how past circumstances in peoples lives leave them scared for future relationships. Reassure her everyday that you think every part of her is beautiful and she'll come around eventually. Be Patient Rome wasn't built in a day :)
2006-09-15 06:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it means her backside looks like she was laying on a gravel driveway and just got up. When she isn't looking, take a picture of it, and put it on the web!
2006-09-15 06:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her if she is tattooed or scarred in that area...? If she is self conscious about it, there's really not much you can do- just wait and see if she ever trusts you enough to reveal all of herself to you.
2006-09-15 06:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just maybe u cant see her from behind because shes laying on her back
2006-09-15 06:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by nickfizzer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,try talking to her and get to know the reason behind it and he she is not comfortable,just give her some time,maybe she has something really reasonable and you need to give her that benefit without being judgemental!!
2006-09-15 06:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just back off .. she'll eventually open up to you .. the more u push her .. the more she'd want to hide .. trust me eventually she wont care .. just takes time .. trust me
2006-09-15 06:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better turn her around and make sure ain't nothing taped up back there.
2006-09-15 06:48:42 · answer #10 · answered by BigDanEaglesFan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋