this is not about womans health but need the advice of a woman. is it possible for a couple that has been divorced to get back together and if so how can it work??? be more realistic then it just takes love and what not. thanks for your help...
2006-09-15 06:20:32 · 8 answers · asked by oilfieldtrash 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Of course. It has happened before.. when the couple decides they are better off together than apart. Depending on what separated them in the first place, this ought to be Priority #1 for their late night discussions.
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2006-09-15 06:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by twowords 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is possible. My parents were separated and all ready for divorce. They decided that they had both made mistakes, that they both needed to change... they've been together now for 35years.
Counselling helps, talking helps alot, I think the real trick is to remember that you have to be friends first. You have to at least have that level of care before a lasting relationship is possible. Also if both parties aren't willing to accept that they've played a part in the difficulties it WON"T WORK.
It takes two to tango and it takes two to make things change.
2006-09-15 06:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by kchivers-carter@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try being friends first. My parents never got back together, but they did learn how to be friends. I don't think that they were friends before then. Too much had happened tho! I suppose it depends on what all has happened between you 2. If you have a child, it's the perfect excuse to talk
2006-09-15 06:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by Suze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if your attachment is strong enuf to overcome your problems. deal with the reason of your divorce first. maybe it will help. and it gets easier as u both know with each other as u have already lived together. for example you know those little titbits that annoy you. just relax and don't let small detail annoy you. yes your couple has a second chance. believe in you ,in your couple and specially believe in him. hope it helps you
2006-09-15 06:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure, I find myself asking the same thing. It takes commitment, mutual repect, and communication.
You may really want to try to get "back together" and "work things out" but do you sincerally think that once all those annoying little things start to show up again, will you be able to handle it?
2006-09-15 06:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nooooooooooo, take it form someone who's be threw it. I was divorced for 1 year and me and my ex got back together it was twice as bad as when we wre married. We fought all the time about the past and everything and it end up just going our sepeart ways but we are friends. We stay strong for our kids
2006-09-15 06:42:53 · answer #6 · answered by lafred116 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on the individuals and their willingness to reconcile. Professional counselling is an option if both parties are agreeable
2006-09-15 06:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by mjdp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you could but you have to work at it and put the past behind you
2006-09-15 11:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋