What is the best way to go about experiencing with a woman when I have never been with a woman before? Where do I meet someone and let them know that I'm totally unexperienced. I have put a lot of thought into this and have decieded that I am definately interested but how do i go about it?
2006-09-15 05:37:16 · 10 answers · asked by unknown_curiousity 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
nature will take its course.
2006-09-15 12:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful!!!!! You don't want to end up meeting some gay bashing people. I would say if you have a friend who understands what you are going through ask them to go with you to a gay bar and see what happens. Don't tell anyone you meet right up front that you are a newbie, just socialize and see if you can meet someone nice. Once you get to know some one or a couple of people maybe let them know you are new into the life style and you want to have a genuine experience. Once you feel safe invite that person to your house and agree to have a safe word so if you get scared and don't want to go all the way they know to stop.
Check out some sites like:
www.girlfriendsmeet.com or www.chatterhead.net/gay-chat.html
Just be care not to get in over your head...
2006-09-15 05:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Though I'm a gay male, I believe I could offer some input here.
There are several places to meet gay people, male or female. If you choose a bar, perhaps you want to go with a friend (straight or gay [male or female] and try finding your special someone that way.
There are coffee houses for those that don't imbibe or relish in the drink. Check your local community for which locations are gay friendly and they can be accomodating and just may satisfy your curiosity.
Finally, perhaps looking in your local gay community newspapers and/or directory you can find opportunities in places you wouldn't begin think possible. Churches, PTA's, special interest groups etc. Honey, the possibilities are endless!
Good luck and I hope your needs gets fulfilled without further delays.
2006-09-15 07:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by bga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way would to be "getting a divorce" before you cheat on your husband. If you think you are gay than don't draw in a bunch of people that might get hurt... If you just want a sexual thing than involve your husband......... Also think of your kids... If they know mommy left daddy for a woman, they will have a harder time excepting your gay lifestyle... If mommy left daddy because she wasn't happy, then met a woman much later that would be different.... Do it right,, too many people cant get hurt really bad here...
2006-09-15 06:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have posted profiles on Mate1.com and also on the yahoo personals. I have been looking for at least 3 years. Even though I have come close I have not found anyone definite yet. Good luck to you. But I think it is very hard to find that special someone.
2006-09-15 05:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by dollfacedbaby1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldnt say that advertising your curiosity is a good idea. Instead, visit gay bars and just go out- you are bound to bump into someone that catches your attention. I always give 'the eye' when i see someone that i like. if they respond to it then your onto a winner.(dont be scared, you cant be arrested for giving women a sexy glance...) But mostly, remember to have fun and be completely honest about your current situation. goodluck.
2006-09-15 05:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if your 18 or older..go to yahoo personal and see women seeking women..and get some..action..your so lucky there are some really hot chicks on there..just let the girls know what you want and you will get.it..have fun..I wish I was going with you..lucky...
2006-09-16 12:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a gay bar and try to meet someone.
2006-09-15 05:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by skhoury28nails 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if you want get in touch with me we'll talk and maybe come up with something fun to do while we talk.i really want to be your friend and talk and have fun while talking to you.
cinderellamirage@yahoo.com
2006-09-15 07:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a gay bar
2006-09-15 05:43:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋