i am in a class with my best friend and my boyfriend and she(my best friend) feels like i ignore her. they do not talk to each other...i have to talk to her then talk to him separately they wont be friends with each other what doi do and am i a bad friend?
2006-09-15 05:09:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No you are not a bad friend. Do you know why they do not like each other? If not you need to ask them both what the problem is. You need to let them know how you feel about each of them and what kind of position they are putting you in. But most of all you need to let them know how they are hurting you and how they make you feel when you have to try so hard to make them both happy. You should never have to pick. Have a get together and have them both there, in a situation where as they have to speak to each other. It don't hurt to try. God bless
2006-09-15 05:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by sheila s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you start having a g/f or a b/f for the first time your best friend may have a problem with that. Why? because now there is someone new in your life that is the "best friend". True.. you may still be 'best friends' but they can't compete with your new "love". They get jelous and then the g/f or b/f gets mad because your 'best friend' makes it tough.. or they get mad because they are mad.
So... you just need to make sure you spend time with each of them and it will eventually resolve itself.. esepcially when you best friend starts dating as well.
2006-09-15 12:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to be doing anything...it's got nothing to do with you. You can be friends with both people...don't let their pissy attitudes of each other affect how you feel about them. This is their problem if they can't get along with one another...face it, it happens some times that we run into a person we don't care much for
2006-09-15 12:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar experience when I was in HS, I was the best friend. I think she just wants to be sure that she is still important in your life. You aren't a bad friend, she is being unflexible and for that matter, so is he...Give it time, when they both see that you are still there for them, they'll come around.
2006-09-15 12:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinik you are a good person caught between two jealious people!! They are lucky to have you for a friend!!!
2006-09-15 12:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋