that when you get married, you are putting at least part of your future, your happiness, and even your whole self into someone else's hands? Because if you don't care enough about your spouse for their actions to have an impact on your life,what's the point of being with them?
Yes, we are all responsible for ourselves, but that doesn't mean no one else can affect us.
Don' t be ridiculous and tell me not to rush into getting married - I'm obviously not! I'm just trying to figure the whole thing out......
2006-09-15 05:02:23 · 6 answers · asked by crabbygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah, your right don't be in a hurry. because married is the most regretful things will happen to you if you don't plan everything. just make sure to ask yourself.
Is he really the one?
am i happy being with him?
can he raise a family?
do think you can handle a problem without anyone being hurt?
just think first..
2006-09-15 05:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by marav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trying to figure the whole thing out too. I agree, I feel that when you get married you and the other person essentially become one. (Just my opinion). So if you're one, both of your actions will always affect each other... Pretty scary.
Don't rush into marriage, you're young! Lol JK!! : )
2006-09-15 12:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by itsme! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right on the mark.....That is one of the reason divorce is so distructive.....Being married is hard work......Harder than a job and raising children.
Being married is an awesome blessing with awesome rewards, but it is the hardest task on this planet. I love being married....I love my husband.
2006-09-15 12:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some may say that you are puting your whole future into somone elses hands.
2006-09-15 12:16:13 · answer #4 · answered by Osun Iya Mi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to think, it only gets me in trouble.
2006-09-15 13:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are correct
2006-09-15 12:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋