If you are in a serious relationship with someone emotionally & sexually is it okay for them to watch porn? What should you do if they think it's okay but you disagree? Is this a sign of cheating? Please help!
2006-09-15 04:43:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
heck no it's not cheating. that would be like being arrested for watching a movie about a bank robbery. der the only thing that may be harful is if you watch porn and see a family member or that new girlfriend and you had no idea they were in the movie.
2006-09-15 04:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are very visual creatures. They get off easy just by watching stuff. So he likes to watch attractive women have sex. Unless these are private tapes of him and ex girlfriends or tapes other women are sending him then you really have nothing to worry about. Because when he turns off the porn.. who does he go to? you.
Watching porn isn't cheating. there isnt any connection between the two people involved.
However.. if this is something you really don't like.. then you need to discuss it with him. I would guess he really won't be willing to give it up or see it as cheating. If thats the case then you need to decide if this is acceptable to you. If not. you neeed to leave the relationship. Don't try to change him... you can't. No one can change someone else. they can only nag.
2006-09-15 05:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by .... 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sexual activity n humans is an instinctive form of physical intimacy. There are 2 forms of the explicit depiction of men and/or women as sexual beings. In general, "erotica" refers to portrayals of sexually arousing material that hold artistic or historical merit, whereas "pornography" often connotes the prurient depiction of sexual acts, with little or no artistic value.
To answer a question what is acceptable in the marriage first you have to answer what is your understanding of the marriage. Will you accept masturbation as a legitimate sexual activity ? If you do then the watching pornography is a logical step in the sexual relations. There is not very much to do about it try to join him and learn to enjoy.
2006-09-15 05:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its alright as long as you keep it under control. It also might be a good idea, to try and get your significant other to get involved as well, it can make for an interesting experience. No its not cheating either.
2006-09-15 04:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's healthy. especially if he learns new tips on pleasing a woman.
2006-09-15 05:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Steve R 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal. Do you want him to hide it from you?
2006-09-15 04:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by neoscribbler 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
doesnt even thinking about it gross you out?? i think its cheating..
2006-09-15 04:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Suri 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋