I dress athletic and he's alwys saing wear a short skirt or something hotter the warm up clothes
2006-09-15 04:35:02 · 22 answers · asked by knotkrzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think your boyfriend is asking for something unreasonable. It doesn't mean you have to dress like some street walker. You have to remember that men are very visual. He obviously loves your body and wants to see it in more flattering clothing. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you in the warm up clothes, but he wants to visually enjoy you differently. I give him credit for telling you this, and it sounds like he didn't ask you in a mean spirited way.
Loosen up a bit and go find a new outfit. I don't know how old you are, but if you're young, wear a shorter skirt. Not one up to your whoo-hoo, but maybe mid-thigh. Buy a shirt that is tighter fitting or sheer, and put on a pair of shoes that don't say Nike on them. If you're older, same thing, but age appropriate.
I think you'll be surprised at what making even a small change will do for your relationship.
2006-09-15 04:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Leslie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he wants you to wear something "hotter" don't... because that prob just means that he wants to look up your skirt, plus too you'll be showing yourself off to all the other boys at school and then they might call u a tramp, or u could just get in trouble for having stuff on like that.
2006-09-15 04:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by Erin the ROCKSTAR! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being more feminine is not a bad thing. Does he want you to be more provocative outdoors or in? I am alot like you when it comes to dressing, I like to be comfortable. But sometimes we need to be more sexy for our significant others. If your not used to wearing things like that, start out small, like wearing them around the house and among friends and they will give you honest advise and also build ur self esteem when it comes to wearing things like that. I don't like dresses at all, I have some but I don't like them and the only time you see me wearing them is on a special occasion. I'm not a girlie girl. But like I said before if you don't feel comfortable wearing it now, try to wear it for him and then after you have taken that first step of feeling more comfortable then wear it on occasions. My bf loves me in a skirt so when him and I go to dinner I wear a skirt and nice blouse, just for him. It makes a man proud of what he has when he sees it and can be even more proud when others see what he has as well.
Good Luck..... Oh one more thing.... don't wear panty hose... they itch, yuck.... LOL
2006-09-15 04:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little more girly is what he is saying. He just wants to see more skin than he does on a regular basis. It doesn't have to be on the slutty-trashy side either. It will improve your sexlife more than you'd expect too.
Surprise him with a little leg, shoulder, or back. If your the shy type, go slow, find a few things and mix and match.
Try pairing a sexy, slightly low cut top with a tight pair of jeans.
It worked for me, and he notices more when you dress to seduce him.
2006-09-15 04:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by tangie1247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone tell you how you should dress. If your comfortable in the clothes you wear then he shouldn't try to change you. On the other hand, if you want to negotiate and he's willing to pay for a new wardrobe of sexy clothes then go for it if you want to, but only if he pays!!! What ever you do though, only wear what you want to wear and if he doesn't like it tell him to shove off.
2006-09-15 04:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you mean that you like to dress up in like sweat pants and big tees all the time then maybe you should wear a tight pair of jeans once in a while or anything like that but if he means that you should change her whole entire wardrobe just because of him then don't do it.
2006-09-15 04:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Bank$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if he is the jealous type I would forget it because men are going to stare. Im sure he has a line he doesnt want you to cross so you better ease into it if you decide too. Most guys like to show off their gf's by having them show some leg or cleavage
2006-09-15 04:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think yu should dress how u want and not dress in short skirt jus because you boyfriend say so. maybe like someone here said u can dress up 4 me one time in while special for him but not all time just because he want yu too.
2006-09-15 04:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. I mean a new boyfriend, not the clothes. He sounds like a control freak or trying to brag to his posse' about his woman.
Of course you should dress up a bit for special occasions or locations.
2006-09-15 04:40:00 · answer #9 · answered by SPLATT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say to keep dressing the way you want to dress and occasionally wear a skirt for him. This way, you both win.
2006-09-15 04:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Pinky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋