my boyfriend can't *** when we have sex....
he blames this on me..... what do i do? whats going on?
is he not attracted anymore? he always compares me with his ex......
2006-09-15 04:08:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dispose of him...or reap the cruel consequences. You are without doubt in my mind "YOUNG"
Thus accounts for the being undecided as to what to do in your case.
You must first face the cold hard facts of life, this guy has used you...he has had his fun times and wants to move on to other victims who are unsuspecting just like you!
In the future be hesitant with your new found boyfriend in reguards to sexual acts...if this is the number 1 issue with him, he's not for you. And you can certainly count on that!
Hope I have helped you in some way...the right guy is out there waiting for you. Go get him!
2006-09-15 04:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by John R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nice boyfriend. There are a lot of reasons why men can't ejaculate during sex. Usually, it is because of the moisture produced. Friction is lost and so is the strong sensation. He's a jerk for blaming it on you. It's not his fault or your fault. I suggest dumping anyone who blames you for such a thing. However, try different positions or stopping on occasion to wipe down.
2006-09-15 11:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by rebelwitch80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he compares you to his ex I would move on since he won't. I'm sure you are very are a very special person and you deserve to be the star in the relationship not the ex.
2006-09-15 11:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aha! PSychological issues regarding sex and the ex
2006-09-15 11:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to say the sex might have been better with his sex. Maybe you should find out if he has any ideas to liven things up a little bit or maybe do some research on your own and surprise him. I believe that any woman can satisfy any man if she really wants to.
2006-09-15 11:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bad carpenter always blames his tools. Seems that your bf suffers from the same problem. Dump him and get someone with first class equipment and you'll notice the difference.
2006-09-15 11:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not blame yourself! He is trying to cover up his problem by blaming you! That is not, right leave him for a guy who can perform in bed. So don't do anything, because this is not your fault, I'm sure are very attractive- it is his problem.
2006-09-15 11:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl it might not b u. It's probably your boy he might still b seeing his x and you just might have 2 ask him and see what he says or try different things that might get your groove back. See if he would like it when u compare him to your x? Put on something really sexy and see what his response is or try role play!
2006-09-15 11:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I'd kick his *ss straight up off my bed!
If he wants the ex he'd better go drag himself over there after I kick him in his balls! LOL
You should drop him luv. He doesn't really appreciate you if he always has his ex on his mind. And, by the way, each woman is different in bed. You need to move on to better things & leave this roach in your dust!
CT
2006-09-15 11:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by lostintheclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get over his ex for one thing. If she was so great, why aren't they still together? He has to accept you for you and quit blaming you for his issues.
2006-09-15 11:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋