I'm not talking about natural miscarriage.
2006-09-15 04:06:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is a very difficult decision that requires a lot of thought. I had one about 10 years ago and I still think about the what if's? should I have done it? etc? It will always be with you, but it gets easier to live with. I was on drugs really bad at that point in my life and I didn't want to bring a baby in this world that had a high chance of being messed up so I chose to abort the baby. Walking in there was very hard because there were people outside with signs. I believe in pro choice. It's up to the mother in my eyes. Granted sometimes I say to myself I killed my own child adn I start to feel really bad, but then I pray about it. I asked God along time ago for forgiveness and I know he forgave me, The hardest part was forgiving myself. Just make sure this is what YOU want!!My prayers are with you
2006-09-15 04:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean the procedure or the emotional part? Because the procedure is quite simple and straight forward, depending on how far you are along in your pregnancy. It hurts just a little, but only when the doctor opens the uterus. Afterwards, it feels like you are having your period, with cramps and so on. There is a limit to having an abortion, I believe it is 12 weeks max. Bigger than that it gets messy. The emotions, well, that kind of depends on the kind of person. Some people sail right through it, while others choose to continue to put energy in the feelings and the judgment. How you handle it... guess that's up to you.
2006-09-15 04:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a really hard question to answer and although I've never been through it myself I know people who have and they have been in bed for weeks after and get a mild depression afterwards. If you really cannot handle a baby and that is the only option then don't let people put you off because you don't want to spend the rest of your life regretting as it could be the worst decision of your life. Yet don't have an abortion unless you have considered every option and won't regret it in the future.
Good Luck, but remember the onl person who can make the deision is you.
2006-09-15 04:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are absolutely sure that's what you want, without any doubt, the best thing to do is tell yourself you have a life-threatening disease and this will cure you.
Everyone's emotional state is different. It's a bit scary but it's not painful. The worst bit is waiting to be called for the anaesthetic. It's all over when you wake up.
The abortion pill is a longer, more drawn out and far more physically and emotionally painful procedure.
2006-09-15 04:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about being awake but if you are put to sleep you only remember being put back into bed afterwards, no pain although you will have bleeding like a period for a while and must use towels only. Everyone I met in there had a good feeling of relief after and were all in very good spirits. We sat in a room and had a good laugh and sandwiches before we retired to bed. If the baby is not planned or pregnancy is a bad thing for any reason you will be glad you did it. Dont let anyone make you feel bad about it, its your decision! Good luck!
2006-09-15 04:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally have not been through this but a friend of mine has, it was a discion she had to make at the time which she thought was right, but after a few years she is now wonder what if she did not. You have to look at your situation and think about providing, caring, putting time aside and putting the baby first, if you cannot do this it would be unfair on the child. See a councillor to discuss process and procedures and have a good think about, only you can make this choice. I am blessed with two happy healthy children but it was my choice to have them and take responsiblity for them, you will have to deal with the situation either way... good luck!
2006-09-15 04:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Claire M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whilst i replaced into 14 i replaced into forced to have intercourse unprotected, no beginning administration, for a pair of years. I prayed all the time that i does no longer get pregnant. Thank God i did no longer. yet once I had, shouldn't I even have been allowed to have an abortion? you're making a sweeping generalization once you haven't any longer been in all the situations that girls can bypass by using with those themes. and you're saying "some women are merely lazy", what on the subject of the adult adult males? they are having intercourse too., eh? possibly attempt to have some empathy?
2016-12-12 08:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by shoaf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts emotionally! I was forced to have one at 17 because my stepmother didn't want to be the talk of the town with a pregnant teenager in the house. To this day I still wish I never had one! My baby would have been 16 yrs old now. I am still with the guy after 17 yrs. Don't do it!! You will feels horrible after wards!!
2006-09-15 04:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by kolowski4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to go through with it, then do it, but my other recommendation is adoption. At least the baby would have a better life with someone and you could experience pregnancy without caring for the baby afterwards. It sounds horrible the way I typed it, but it would be a better solution
2006-09-15 04:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never had an abortion but i believe it is wrong, people who dont want babies should take the pill and so what if u say the bloke should use comdom coz blokes dont care they just want there sex unless they use protection they r a good bloke to be with. i know someone who had an abortion then 5 months later wanted a baby now tell me thats wrong
2006-09-15 04:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by kim in guildford 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋