About 9 months ago I transfered to a new college and got a new roommate. . But after a couple weeks we became pretty good friends. About a month later my roommate told me that she thought she was bisexual. Being open to diversity, I didn't have a problem with it. About a month after she told me, she began hitting on me (she claimed it was a joke... and just to tease). But I began having feelings for her. There would be times where she would get this look on her face like she wanted to kiss me, and I wanted to kiss her soo bad. Now I'm starting to believe that I'm bisexual because I'm so attracted to her. One night last semester we actually almost kissed but someone walked in on us. But during this summer I found my feelings for her growing stronger. I stayed at her house during the summer and afterwards we both agreed that there was a lot of sexual tension between us. And last night, we both admitted that we like eachother. It did not end well, and i don't know what to do anymore.
2006-09-15 03:53:07 · 11 answers · asked by acissje5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It didn't end well because we didn't resolve it. She just said that she didn't know what to do anymore. It was getting late so she had to leave (we're not roommates this semester). It's complicated because we were really good friends before this happened and I don't know if I want to ruin that by acting on our feelings for eachother.
2006-09-15 04:01:06 · update #1
Talk it out when you both are ready.
And if after some soul searching you figure out that you're bisexual, embrace it. Or maybe you're just curious. No one knows except for you so its up to you to figure it out.
As for your friend- communication is important. Hope for the best. Good luck!
2006-09-15 03:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by wendiann2222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kiss and take it from there.
If the kiss doesn't feel right, then don't proceed. If it does, then talk about what should happen next.
A lot of the time, when someone tells you something like that, you begin to question things yourself, and thus there is this sort of fake tension created because things are out (sort of) in the open. Hope that makes sense.
2006-09-15 10:56:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you find yourself still attracted to men at all. If so then chances are your bi-curious. Which means you want to know what it would be like to be with another woman. If you'd like it or not, or if and when it came right down to it you'd go through with it or not. The only way to find out is to just do it. There is nothing wrong with the way you are feeling, I think it's perfectly normal. Whats not healthy is to keep these feelings locked up inside. It could cause a number of other problems. My advice to you would be to just go with your gut feeling on this. Good Luck
2006-09-15 11:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the main part you left out, you said it did not end well, what did you mean by that? That the two of you did try it, and it did not go well? If that is so then you just be friends, and roommates, and concentrate on school that is what you are their for anyhow. Say to her, may be we got of on the wrong foot, lets start over, and be friends!!
2006-09-15 11:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move away and find a man to love you and be there for you. she's programing you and it will not end well anyway.
think about your live and your future. how you'll be feeling when you live your life with a partner unable to have kids or true family.
stay away from her as fast as you can and get a busy life. i feel you are so young once you got so fast into this.
2006-09-15 11:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by adorable 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing you should do with any other relationship. Chalk it up to experience and move on.
Maybe you really are bisexual, or it could be that you were just incredibly attracted to someone of the same sex in this one instance. Who knows?
2006-09-15 10:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been corrupted. Diversity and sexuality have nothing to do with each other. Go find a man and get away from this woman!
2006-09-15 11:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by The Masked Marauder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to help you when we don't know what happened after you admitted feelings. You said it didn't end well. Why?
2006-09-15 10:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a little time and then talk to her about it. Good luck to you
2006-09-15 10:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "it did not end well"?
2006-09-15 10:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋