I had a girl friend in 2001 and i travel and after then i mailed her several times and she did not reply my mails but in april this year to be precise she call me and told me she got my number from my cousin. What should i do we never had quarrel.
2006-09-15 03:30:42 · 17 answers · asked by daniel65ng 3 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
Sounds like you have feelings for her
Talk to her, find out what happened
Bet she didn't get the letters.
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2006-09-15 03:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Scooby 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say talk to her. I have a friend who I dated in high school. He was a few years older than me and it didn't work out. We stayed friends for several years then I moved away and we lost touch. Several more years went by and we didn't contact each other. Then I moved back to his area and looked him up. Not only did we pick up our friendship where it left off, things seemed even better. He even helped me out when I was in a real tough situation. Never give up on friendship. You may have been more than friends at one time and you may become that again. However in the meantime, you can never have to many friends. Obviously she must still CARE about you if she's trying to reconnect!
2006-09-15 10:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by mystri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls can be like that, you know after a breakup (or after a proposal) they compare (past) relathionships and end up thinking that they (maybe) missed something by breaking up with an ex. If the ex doesn't call or ask for them they're doubting the decision and end up trying to contact the ex (just yto know what's goin on ...) yes, ... insecurity
2006-09-15 10:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by HaveUmetTed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to piss off... You werent good enough for her to write you back and keep contact, why now all of a sudden is she calling. I guess its not convient for HER. Dont allow yourself to be at her beck and call cause once the next best thing comes along, she could string you on again!
2006-09-15 10:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kit 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just go and talk to her and see what had happen and why she never answer you back. but dont fall for the old feelings you had for her do it as a friend. sometime it is good to be a friend than trying to be the old flame cause that was back in 01. i know cause i am dealing with almost the same thing but mine came back 1 yr later. good luck and go with your feeling!
2006-09-15 11:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by boni r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are with a different girl now and you become friends with your ex out of the blue your girlfriend will get mad
2006-09-15 10:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by laurali79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Instead of going back, look forward. Get on with you life. You deserve the best. Leave the past in the past.
2006-09-15 10:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by Peng Yin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her man,not worth it.she'll dump you again sooner or later.
5 years it's not a 5days or weeks.live your life.
2006-09-15 10:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by Moe M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think she's got something to hide. But i guess you see her first if you're still interested.
2006-09-15 10:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by botdj16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her, you should never let a good thing go.
good luck
2006-09-15 10:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by hunny jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋