I want to get a divorce (Indiana - married 2 years - no kids). Any basic tips or advice I should know to get started. Should I consult with a lawyer just to find out what my rights are even though I'm hoping we can use a mediator. All I want is what's mine (which includes the house) and our 3 pets (which he will fight me on). He is verbally/emotionally abusive and drinks excessively sometimes. What is your advice?
2006-09-15 03:18:28 · 6 answers · asked by animal_mother 4 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Is his name on either or both the house and or the mortgage? I guess in the long run it won't matter to him anyway if he is jerk he will try to make you buy him out. Just a warning hun. I would seriously suggest obtaining assistance from an attorney, it might be a spendy thing but well worth it in the long run, believe me don't try to go it alone. And as another added measure if you have not yet filed for divorice, when you do, obtain a restraining order at the same time and........if you choose to take back your maiden name, do that at the same time your divorice is finalized as it will cost you extra to do it later. Don't forget to change the locks on the house too. Men can be sneaky bastards, 'specially the abusive ones. Kudos to you for standing up for yourself and I wish you all the luck in the world.
2006-09-15 03:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by snobunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would start with a lawyer and see what to do legally without harming the process. I applaud you for getting out of the abusive relationship, I know it is hard, but you are doing the right thing. Good luck!!
2006-09-15 03:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by cfoxwell99 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer. You have property to divide and you will need a good divorce attorney. Good luck on getting the house and the pets. He is entitled to half as well as you are. The judge may make you liquidate your property. Good luck.
2006-09-15 03:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a lawyer.
2006-09-15 03:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ofcource ..
you are in need of a lawyers advice immediatey...
Have a nice Day
2006-09-15 03:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Ranjith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, consult a good divorce lawyer.They will usually offer your first consultation free.Then look out!!!!!!!!!!!
Good luck and stick to your guns!
2006-09-15 03:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋