2006-09-15 03:12:43 · 9 answers · asked by Maria O 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
surround yourself with friends and family members who hold positive feelings toward you. don't allow yourelf to be subjected to situations and people that can cause you to lose confidence or begin to doubt yourself and your worth.
somewhere along the way, as you were growing up, someone diminished your confidence in yourself. shame on whomever that was. lack of confidence can leave you crippled, afraid to try new things. afraid to take chances, afraid of strange people, afraid of rejection, afraid of failure, and the list goes on.
you may not like this advice, but i suggest you see a psychiatrist to talk about the issues that cause you to lose confidence. living with low confidence can cause emotional disturbances for the subjected person. perhaps you have depression and/or anxiety disorder. both will TOTALLY zap your confidence. the good news is that there is help available. a combination of talk and drug therapy can perform miracles.
i know this from first-hand experience. i've walked in your shoes.
it's painful and lonely.
please seek professional help and support.
best of luck, friend!
2006-09-15 14:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to relax in any situation and you will appear confident which should in turn build your confidence. Now if I could only practice what I preach!
2006-09-15 03:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mix with ur friends more often and interact more with them. But, only mix with ppl whom u considered friends, that is, friends who support u, encourage u, motivate u and always be with u. Try to create an topic for discussion which will firstly, train ur confidence and secondly, u have taken e first step to becoming confident!
No matter what, u must be confident of yourself, no matter what others say to u for no one can make u inferior except yourself.
=)
2006-09-16 03:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by loveharrypotter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by findin out what's cause u to not have confidence ...when u identify the problem then u can go about findin a solution...good luck
2006-09-15 03:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by Darsh(Say it like u mean it) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Identify the things that you do like about yourself. and the things you don't. work on changing the things you don't like and enjoying the things you do like about yourself. realize that you are a worthwhile person- and behave accordingly. and surround yourself with people who treat you as you should be treated.
2006-09-15 03:18:12 · answer #5 · answered by rachel o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either you can fail so many times that the effect that the failing feeling is kinda goes 'numb' take Jhonny Bravo for instance.. he got dumped so many times it dosen't really matter anymore
2006-09-15 03:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by jjt168 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never bet but convince others.
2006-09-15 03:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by nomedicationman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out do some volunteer work
2006-09-17 10:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is that??
2006-09-15 03:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by hi there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋