Im living with the love of my life, but I have a chance to be with this black man with a large TOE Shouldnt everyone experince this just ONCE?
2006-09-15 03:10:45 · 27 answers · asked by Dr.Feelgood 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes
2006-09-15 03:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes if there's a subconscious difficulty or glitch contained in the guy's truthful courting, he might want to sense the prefer to cheat, regardless of if he doesnt recognize why. there is really a lot consistently a clarification for the guy to cheat if he does (it really is a nasty difficulty to do, yet there continues to be a reason if it occurs). If the guy does not sense fulfilled interior his truthful courting, he might want to imagine that if he tries it with some different person then he might want to be fulfilled, both sexually or emotionally. it really is a sad and undesirable difficulty even as a guy or woman cheats, for this is the top of an truthful and worrying courting.
2016-11-27 00:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on your relationship with your partner. If you really love him and know in your heart that it would hurt him if you cheated...then you may want to skip the "fun".
However if you and your partner are open to situations like this one, then maybe it's ok. You really need to think of the consequences of your actions before you act.
As for my relationship. No, I would not cheat on my partner. I made a commitment and I feel that I should honor it.
This is however my life. I can't decide for you...just make sure you look at the bigger picture.
2006-09-15 05:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by The Tiki God 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never...maybe you and the "love of your life" have some unacknowledged issues. This doesn't sound like it's just about sex with a hot guy, sounds like an excuse to sabatoge your relationship. If you were truly happy w/ your partner you wouldn't be considering hurting him that way. Maybe you just want an open relationship, either way, talk with the man you love.
2006-09-15 05:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by m m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to want to go and have a fling with someone when you are in a relationship. However, think about how much stronger your relationship will be if you don't do it.
I don't know how you feel about the stereotypes us gay men face about sleeping around, etc but if you are like me and feel that these stereotypes are wrong and make us look bad, then doing this would only help make that worse.
If you really do love this guy think about how you would feel if you found out he did that to you.
2006-09-15 03:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by shstrn 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As an African-American male; who is totally into romance and faithfulness, I would tell you don't do it. I've never been unfaithful with anyone I've dated or been in love with. It's not fair to them or the relationship. Trust me, what happens if your lover finds out about it? How can you look at him in his eyes; after doing the dirty deed and say; I love you? What happens if you bring home a gift that keeps on giving? How do you explain that to your man? If you are in love with him be in love with him. If not, break his heart and play! Sounds like you have a good thing going; and suffering from a case of the "Grass Is Always Greener On The Other Side Of The Fence".
2006-09-15 04:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I agree with everyone else....this must not be the love of your life if you are willing to cheat....It is called Cheating for a reason....Why do you feel the need to ask others if this is OK to do? If it was the right thing you would not have to ask...and are you going to listen to what we have to say....or just do what you want to anyway? I feel sorry for the love of your life....
2006-09-15 03:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, because I dated a black guy before ( he was black and half german) Basically a molato (sp???) He died in 2000. I promised him he will be my only and my last black guy.
So, it's been 6 years now, and I still have no intention to sleep with black guys because of him, the loved of my life!!!!
2006-09-15 07:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Beckham613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound silly. Do people still look at black men as some uncharted territory to say they've conquered? Same with black women. Everyone has this "I just gotta know" thing about it.
And, no, it's not nice to cheat on your partner, gay or not. I know gays tend to have looser rules about those sorts of things, but it's still wrong.
2006-09-15 03:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
the love of your life???? just think about this a strong relationship which was took such time to build could be destroyed in minutes, (or seconds) for what . He might not even be able to mange his tool.
p.s you'll need to get away from this desire to be with a black atleast once, like they are a rare specimen!!!
2006-09-15 03:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by kittykat42 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not in to black men, so no. But regardless - you should not cheat on the love of your life for any reason. That is gluttony and pride. Don't do it. It won't be worth it. Carefully go over the short and long term consequences of your actions.
2006-09-15 03:17:59 · answer #11 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋