that the problem is in my personality? what should i do to have a real friend?
2006-09-15 02:41:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes...the problem is that your so called friends know you'll accept any sort of behavior from them because you don't have the self respect to stand up and tell them how you feel when they're doing something to hurt you.
You need to tell them how you feel. If they distance themselves, you'll know they weren't your friends in the first place. You need to reevaluate how you feel about your friends and start valuing your own self worth. Only when you value yourself will other people feel the same. Find positive people with whom you share common interests. You deserve to respect yourself and be respected.
Good luck!
2006-09-15 02:48:46 · answer #1 · answered by Bobbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no problem with your personality if u ask your real friend because a real friend loves u 4 who u are and a real friend accepts the personality that u really have. So u dont need to change ur personality at all (well except when ur already hurting a lot of people thats when u change ur personality). Just be urself and u'll find ur real friend who loves u for who u are.
2006-09-15 09:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by Winter Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD FRIENDS ARE HARD TO FIND. you will find some someday. I can not stress enough to be yourself. Alot of people in the world today use people, you know who are true friends follow you heart it will tell ya. Dont let people like that get ya down you deserve better. Follow the motto Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. If the world would do this is would be a better place. Dont change a good personality to make friends thats what get ya in trouble.
2006-09-15 09:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by bradosmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm I guess the problem is either you are too "transparent" or your expectations of them are too high.
During your life your true friends will be 10 the most, the others you can call them just pals.
True friends are really hard to find, then you just can't expect to trust anybody that you believe is your friend, do not consider a Friend until he/she demonstrates deserving your trust.
2006-09-15 09:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Classy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUE FRIENDS are hard to find... especially a real friend... there is nothing wrong with your personality... Some time around, you'll realized that a friend will become a true one.
2006-09-15 10:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by "fIrE_stAr" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be one, be a real friend......It hurts when you find out that they have lowered themselves, but don't lower yours. Don't become like them.....Treat people the way you want to be treated....with love and respect no matter what.
2006-09-15 09:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that makes them feel it is OK to cheat?
2006-09-15 09:42:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
possiable i tell them striaght out that you don't want someone to cheat on you or use you i usually knock them out if i find out that they did that
2006-09-15 09:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋