2006-09-15 02:31:19 · 15 answers · asked by TJ B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be there for her.
Then let her cry while you offer close support.
Don't get distressed. Offer love in the form of empathy.
Just tell her you love her, and to get it all out.
2006-09-15 02:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by tui 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you understand she's upset and you're happy to listen to what's wrong, but you can't do that when she's crying. Don't be impatient with her. She needs to know you're there for her. Ask her to come over so you can talk in person, or invite yourself over to her place...then you can hug her, let her see you care, and she'll feel safe about opening up and telling you what's wrong.
Good luck!
2006-09-15 02:38:02 · answer #2 · answered by Bobbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her.Let her cry. She will eventully tell you what is wrong. She needs a man that will let her use his shoulder like that. Being there is the Key. Good Luck
2006-09-15 02:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno.
I'd be baffled, I suppose.
Then hop on the bike so I can cannon through the traffic and be round there as soon as is humanly possible to see if she needs help, or something.
2006-09-15 02:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very immature & emotional unstable - maybe you should suggest she look into counseling. You are not a trained professional & it is not fair for her to treat you like that - she is not a princess & she should not expect you to be a knight in shining armour.
2006-09-15 02:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglynnie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to her and have her know you are listening. Dont even, I mean dont EVEN try to understand a woman when she is upset, just be there and listen to her. I will probably get alot of hits for saying that/
2006-09-15 02:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by been_there_done_it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen and let her cry and wait for when she is ready to talk about her problem. crying soothes the pain and knowing someone is there for you helps a lots.
2006-09-15 02:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your best to figure out what is wrong with her...be patient maybe it's embarrassing and that's why she don't want to mention it...trust me she will eventually tell you..bear with her.
2006-09-15 02:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is to sad to speak at that moment but, try to speak for her. ask her what is wrong tel her: if you don't tel me i don't know what is wrong if is bad is more good to speak ask her: if she don't want to speak on the phone and maybe go to her house and try to shear her up tel her: is what friends are for and i am always here for you. maybe it will work just trying to help.
2006-09-15 03:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by marleen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her is she just started her cycle and if so tell her to take a nap and call you later
2006-09-15 02:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by sue j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋