Just wondering. I posted a similar question and got few answers so I figured I'd repost and change the heading. I ask because I also posted a question about a friend of mine whose boyfriend wanted to have a threesome with me. (I don't do threesomes nor do I like women.) She was very drunk, and agreed, but I am the reason it didn't happen. Some responses I got is that you are not responsible for what you do while drunk, or that she was agreeing to it to please her man. Does this only apply to women? I don't drink so I can't relate to being so drunk that I would have sex with a woman when I am not attracted to women, and I would be pissed if my man asked me to do it.
2006-09-15 02:26:33 · 16 answers · asked by GreenEyedSista 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Unfortunately we women are the ones who are expected to "please". I have no desire to ever do that, even though I'm bi. My sexuality is for nobody's viewing pleasure. I think the only way to get your boyfriend to agree with a threesome with another guy is to date a bi guy or get him drunk, but if you use the drunken method he will lose trust in you. Most straight men are completely against that sort of threesome, but once in a while you'll find one who is openminded.
2006-09-15 03:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Rule of Thumb, alcohol breaks down inhibitions, you are more likely to do things when drunk that you would, even subconsciously, like to do, but, for whatever reason, choose not to. If you are genuinely not attracted to women then no amount of alcohol will change that basic aspect of your personality. If you did drink, and someone got you so drunk you literally didn't know what was happening and took advantage, that would not be you doing it because you were drunk, that would be you being sexually assaulted.
2006-09-17 15:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't need to be drunk to have a threesome, in principle. I wouldn't do it with my girlfriend though (if I had one) as I believe this sort of thing (3somes) would be detrimental to the relationship.
Drinking can't absolve your responsibilities, but it certainly reduces your inhibitions.
Oh, and I'm not gay, so I'd be concentrating on the lady, so I suppose it defeats the purpose of having a 3some anyway.
Sorry for rambling, I'm a bit bored
2006-09-15 02:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Woody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question kinda brings out another question. What if the "husband/boyfriend" was alone with you while intoxicated and he hit on you and grabbed your crotch while trying to lay a big wet one on ya? Or your "straight" friend decided to climb into bed with you that night cause his girlfriend said he was too drunk to sleep with her ... so you end up with a naked "straight" guy humping your shoulder blades thinking it's his girl.
But ... to answer your question ... 3-ways suck cause there will always be somebody that's left out.
2006-09-15 06:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by spartexcites 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 09:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by shea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. if I was gay or str8... I Do not think that I could ever be talked into a threesome no matter who it is with... Just the whole idea of a threesome turns me off.
2006-09-15 02:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I made it a point to never to be intoxicated before engaging in ANY type of sexual activity.
Having a few drinks to lighten up, so to speak is one thing, but down right intoxication ...to me....is very much a turn off.
2006-09-15 03:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by dont_you_hate_it_when 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, it sounds more like you are searching for a way to rationalize your feelings instead of getting an answer, you wouldn't have repeated the question otherwise.
2006-09-15 02:41:47 · answer #8 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk or sober I don't think I could get my head into it.
2006-09-15 03:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I had a menage after we were all stoned. We did it for the wrong reasons. It destroyed one friendship and damaged the other
2006-09-15 02:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋