they are pen-pal friends, they know eachother for long time, and contact by mail, they discuss everything they haven't any secret between them. If they starting relationship what do you suggest them?
2006-09-15 02:25:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is my life! I wrote my wife for 6 years before i decided to go visit her country. in the mean time we discussed everything and i mean everything because it is easier to be yourself when writing down on paper than you could face to face. Yet keep in mind that you must be of moral character when doing such! No one can say what and who that other person is until you meet...I met my wife for three visits over the next three years and the third time we got married...and still remain so.....If you meet the first time do not do it alone...have a friend or friends withyou the first couple of times so you can feel comfortable in your situation. And if your friends are true to you, they will tell you what they think. But you are the final judge. but that first meeting is critical and important for both of you...When i met my wife, she thought she would not see me again with tears in her eyes, we parted at the airport as i returned home. but God.s grace works. if you need more help in your situation email me at adventist54@yahoo.com/friendster
2006-09-15 02:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by namdorg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe such a relationship is based on a solid foundation. This is because they both know each other inside-out - theoretically. The only aspect remaining is to put all the information they have about themselves into practice. I think they won't have much problem in translating their theory to practice. Cheers and good luck.
2006-09-15 09:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do anything .. you know what they say people only tell you what they think you want to hear .. so i would just keep being pen pals and keep it at that ... cause if you only know this person on paper .. you don't really know who they are :)
2006-09-15 09:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow go out hang out and have a good time, If you get along now through mail you will in life and maybe found your number one
2006-09-15 09:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing eachother is alway a good idea. Make sure that they have something thats more than friends so they don't ruin a good thing for something that wasn't even there. Good luck.
2006-09-15 09:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a world of difference between writing or texting somebody and coming face to face with them
2006-09-15 09:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by kytho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it as it is. Dont meet him at all. You dont know if he is a sheep in wolf clothing. Many have died doing this. It seem to be innocent but you really dont know this guy.
2006-09-15 09:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe be clear aboutwhat you guys are looking for since your relationship is established already and is evolving into something new. Good Luck! :)
2006-09-15 09:27:37 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them not to get shocked when they see face to face.it did happen to me. she was nothing like she wrote.
well tell them to be pals forever
2006-09-15 09:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by jeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it real slow and dont rush into intimacy
2006-09-15 09:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋