My girlfriend has a female friend at work. They are alike in many ways. We all happen to work in a very large hospital on different shifts. I had the displeasure of working with them on a few overtime shifts. The girl that I love went from being the beautiful intelligent young lady to this this ditsy "oh my god, yeah! lets do that." Recently, I called her at home in the morning and they were hanging out at her apartment. I called back at 1pm and my girlfriend said she was taking a nap. I asked if her friend went home. She answered no that her friend was taking a nap too. I asked, if she was sleeping in the spare bedroom? She responded no that she was sleeping in her bed with her. I personally found that very odd. (They have only been close for about six months). I'd understand if the were 15 but 25 and 27. I asked the next obvious question? I asked if she and her friend were having a relationship? I am ready to apologize if this is normal behavior. I just find it very odd.
2006-09-15 02:19:35 · 14 answers · asked by Topstar01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Very normal. People are different depending on the environment. Some people are worse than others.
2006-09-15 02:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way... this is not normal! Everyone acts a little different around their friends compared to their bf / gf. Usually their friends, especially close ones bring out different side of them that their bf / gf doesn't. In your case... this is taking it a little far. Hey they might not be having a sexual relationship, an affair, or that, but I have heard of girls, even guys, completely hetero having these real intense crush like relationships with someone of the same sex. I would bet anything that this is what's going on.
Cut her loose. If you keep up the relationship it will always be a triangle, and there is no one, I mean no one more jealous then a girlfriends 'friends' if they feel like a boyfriend has broken that intense bond.
2006-09-15 02:28:38 · answer #2 · answered by DAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your worry about this. Her acting ditsy around her friend is nothing to worry about but taking a nap with her is a different story. It sounds a little weird to me too. I think you and her should just have a talk because you wont get the truth out of anyone but her.
2006-09-15 02:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls will be Girls!
Sounds Very ominous though!
As a male I would tend to agree with You..Sounds like they are exploring something more than just a close Friendship!
Does your Male intuition not sense anything?
Mine sure would!
On the other hand they may well be experimenting Physically with each other -wether it's truly experimental (Short term) or maybe she could be 'BI'??
It's very fashionable these days amongst this age group.
Not sure if they'd want you to watch,participate? (Not sure how broad-minded or Open you are personally about such things!)
Some Men find it Arousing others feel Confused and Violated-Where do you fit in to???
Hope you resolve it!
2006-09-15 02:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude but girls are completely different from guys, they can become best friends in seconds and dnt think sleepin in same bed with a friend they hav jst met is weird!! Isnt the norm but it does happen!
2006-09-15 02:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Stuart C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 23:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by haslinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not all that odd. I have slept in a bed with my best friend many times. Woman are capable of being in bed with another woman and NOT doing anything sexual. It probably never crossed her mind. Men tend to associate everything with sex, or maybe this is your fantasy??
2006-09-15 02:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by Amy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my close friend and I watch tv in my room she lays across the bed and takes a nap fully dressed.its my bed so I am not gonna lay no where else but I'm fully dressed.As you spend time with your girl you will read between the lines and know if they are acouple or not.
2006-09-15 02:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For someone who is supposed to have something to hide she was very open with you as to what she was doing. What did she say to your question of if they are having a relationship????? that is pertinent information.
If it is normal for people to be different around different people. Of course it is.. you are different around your boss then you are around your brother. It is normal.
2006-09-15 02:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep...she is a lesbian. I had a similar thing happen to me. I was not married to her thank god. Let me guess......she is a man hater too? I know the feeling bro. Terrible isen't it.
2006-09-15 02:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by Husker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋