she will be 16 in 4 months. he just turned 18. both in high school.
2006-09-15 02:14:50 · 18 answers · asked by kitttkat2001 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
someones commet was ask her dad. im her mom. her dad is trying to stay calm..lol for now the 2 just talk on phone alot. she says they are just gettin to know each other that they arent going out yet. but they are on phone hrs at a time. just tryin to get prepared for if they do go out. i was 15 when i started dating her dad. he was 18. been married for 17yrs. but he says theres no other guy like him that all boys want one thing. my daughter has asked around about the boy and everyone says hes not the type after 1 thing.
2006-09-15 02:32:04 · update #1
that is perfectly fine in my book, as long as they are both in highschool, it really only sounds like a 2 year difference. 18 and a 14 year old would start to gt a little weird in my book
2006-09-15 02:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by Pat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, there's nothing especially wrong with it. However, the 18 year old will get nailed with statutory rape if things go that way. A lot of people will look down on it...but is a 2 or 3 year difference that bad? It appears so when people are still under 18...so, it's really a matter of opinion.
2006-09-15 02:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Shaun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes there is a problem because at 16 her brain isn't even fully developed. There are still connections to be made that is why when a teen gets emotional all reasoning ability falls away. It is almost as though the brain literally loses its cap. At 18 he doesn't have this problem and will soon be leaving the h.s. scene. She is still very impressionable while he is about to embark on his life in an entirely different arena. There will be plenty of time for relationships. Encourage her to focus on education, hanging out with girls, and activities. She is free of the burden of family and should take full advantage.
2006-09-15 02:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People will say its wrong cause of the age but in my opinion, age does not matter. If they truly like each other, things will work out in the end. Cheers.
2006-09-15 02:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i dont think anythings wrong with that b/c age aint nothing but a number and if she/he loves you than thats fine im 17 and date a 21 year ol so i think its cool
2006-09-15 02:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no nothing wrong but if she's having sex then something is wrong there because she's under age to have sex, no matter how soon she'll be 16 if she should die now she's still 15.
2006-09-15 02:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only in that in some states he is considered an adult and she is still a minor. If things get to a certain point, consider "statutory rape".
2006-09-15 02:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
nothing wrong but you should be care ful it can be a sticky situation and you need to make sure you are both on the same mental level
2006-09-15 02:17:14 · answer #8 · answered by a_bi_nympho 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a child until you turn 16... and may continue to be a child until you mature... he should see about finding someone his own age...
2006-09-15 02:17:30 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean apart from the fact that he most likely only wants her for sex?
2006-09-15 02:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by yes darling 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋