iam very concerned about my sister she has made "comments" that should not be said to brothers and sisters , iam worried now and dont have a clue why she would bring this up at all . any help?
2006-09-15 02:10:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
iam 35 and shes 26
2006-09-15 02:15:22 · update #1
You are just too irresistable for your own good.
2006-09-15 02:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like your sister has been molested by someone in your family. If it's complicated to ask her to get help then YOU get the help and swear your therapist to secrecy until you both have decided how to handle this. This is very serious business, don't leave this unchecked, do something about it right away. It will destroy your life if you don't, you need help and support - like yesterday. Pick up the phone today and find a place where you can go for free.
Linda
2006-09-15 02:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
is she your biological sister or step sister. If she is your step sister and your parents haven't been married long. That may be logical. However if she is a blood relative then I would say you need to tell your parents. She may have a low self esteem and is looking for comfort in the wrong way. Regardless she needs counselling just for saying inappropriate things to you. She may have a mental health issue that needs immediate attention
2006-09-15 02:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by leahb1979 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your sister may have a problem and need counseling .i suggest you tell a family member like your mom and explain that your sister has made some very uncomfortable gestures toeard you and you dont know what to do or who else to go to about this..trust me your mom will listen ..your sister may need some serious serious help...
2006-09-15 02:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by poobearri1102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all tell your parents....Then tell her she needs to stop the comments that she is making to you because they make you feel uncomfortable.
Maybe she needs just someone to vent to, so she has chosen you. Are you and her close as a brother and sister? Everyone needs to tell their problems every now and then but be very careful......
2006-09-15 02:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by whenwhalesfly 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are 18, and its possible... Move out! Otherwise, avoid her! I realize she is your sister, but you need to do whats right... she most likely is going through a very odd stage in life... if she makes you feel concerned, then by all means, TELL HER that!
2006-09-15 02:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by lily 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask your sister why she says the things she does to you and if you don't feel that you can be comfortable with her answers, you better have a talk to your parents and let them know, because that is totally inappropriate behaviour and needs to be dealt with (quickly and seriously)
2006-09-15 02:14:10 · answer #7 · answered by Linda 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR SISTER NEEDS COUNSELING. SHE MAY HAVE BEEN THRU SOMETHING TERRIBLE YOU DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT, AND IS JUST ACTING OUT ON IT. OR MAYBE SHE WAS JUST KIDDING. EITHER WAY, SHE SHOULDN'T BE SAYING THINGS TO HER BROTHER LIKE THAT. I WISH I COULD HAVE KNOWN YOUR AGES. IF YOU ARE YOUNGER THAN HER AND LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE, YOU SHOULD REALLY TELL YOUR PARENTS THAT WAY THEY CAN PROTECT YOU, AND HELP HER. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-15 02:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Maybe she hasn't been with a man in a long time and your the closest one to her. She probably wants to feel protected and love. Just tell her what she is doing is wrong and love her in other ways. Cheers.
2006-09-15 02:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Thats revolting have a serious talk with your sister if that doesn't work then tell someone.
2006-09-15 02:13:49 · answer #10 · answered by Hazel t 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋