Some men feel it is degrading to go down on a woman, for her to go down on him it is fine but not for him. second, some women also feel that if she can get her man to lick her down there, he loses his respect in front of her..especially if he licks her liquid too, and when they return to their senses (meaning come to real life) she would look down upon him ... how true is this ? and what are your opinions regarding "going down on a woman" and what these people feel about it?
2006-09-15 01:54:08 · 12 answers · asked by scary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some men and women think it is gross to go down on each other and others think it is part of the lovemaking. It depends which way you are. When you are with your partner, you are trying to make that person happy. If you are with a person that loses respect for you for going down on them, then they have a problem.
2006-09-15 09:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would someone feel that oral sex is degrading? Foreplay is the best and most intimate part of making love - I am not sure who the people are that you are referring to, but I can tell you that the people I know, enjoy pleasing their partner and take personal enjoyment from the experience... both sides.
Women will not look down on the man in thier life for providing pleasure... if anything, they will love them even more for taking them to a pleasure point that they otherwise would not get to experience.
Just incase you are not aware, a woman's clit has 100 times the sensitivity that the tip of a man's penis has. ( stats from a sex toy sales rep) and if you are not touching her clit with your fingers or your mouth, your woman is missing out on the best stimulation of her life. Something like 90% of women can have orgasm by clit stimulation.
Something to think about.
Good luck with whatever hangup's you are dealing with. Worht them out and relax and enjoy your partner. Life is full of pleasure's yet to be enjoyed... Go find them.
2006-09-15 02:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Night Train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not morals that makes them go down less on a woman but culture. it is getting better though many women feel that going down on their partner is gross but they do it because they have to obey the men, while the men who do not enjoy giving oral, they just do not do it.
It is a question about what each and every one of us is comfortable with.
2006-09-15 02:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have greater respect for anyone who would perform oral sex on me, and I find that my darling respects me more for my willingness to return the favor. Some people feel differently about this than we do though. Everyone is different.
2006-09-15 02:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by at a snail's pace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a question of morals, respect, etc, it is a question of what your comfortable with. Not everyone likes it, the smell, the taste...
Sex is best left in the bedroom and between the two there, not everyone or the governments ideal of what is right and wrong with sex.
If you and your partner like it, do it, if not, then don't.
2006-09-15 02:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a man and woman do in their bedroom (a married man and woman at that) is between them and there is no clear cut guidelines for what they do. As long as they are desiring to please the other one if it is also pleasing to them than go for it!! Going down on a woman would be o.k. for the man if he liked it and she liked it.
2006-09-15 01:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL.. damn im glad i dont have these issues.. lol.. be missing out on alot of fun.. although i did date a man once that thought it was disrespecting me for me to go down on him.. and didnt feel comfortable with the idea, so i just tricked him into letting me, then once he figured out i love to give almost as much as i love to recieve.. and well he liked it.. he got more comfortable with it lol..
2006-09-15 02:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with oral sex.I totally respect my husband after he gives me a mind blowing orgasm from licking me and my fluids down there.
2006-09-15 02:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say wait untill you are married to have sex...and it is wrong that women say its wrong for only the guys but when thay do it it fine....and i dont know that is so wait untill you are married it makes everything better trust me..
2006-09-15 02:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not going down on your wife... then someone else may be.
2006-09-15 01:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋