My best friend had her first time sex but she did not tell her bf that is her first time sex. Her bf did not notice her in a lot of pain and keep telling her that she is very tight. She didnt bleed. After finished, he still don't know she was a virgin. How about you?
2006-09-15 01:48:58 · 10 answers · asked by jessjesschoy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You just tell them from the start.
2006-09-15 01:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by Yen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't lose your virginity just because your friend did it. Honestly, do you think you will be with this guy forever? If you are under 20 it is very unlikely that you will be. Save yourself for someone you love and are committed to. Trust me, you do not want to be worried about diseases or taking care of a baby at your age.
Best advice...is to wait.
2006-09-15 11:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 9⤊ 2⤋
yea i make sure i tell my man that im a virgin that way when we hav sex he dont go all wild the first time he has to take it easy cause it will cause soreness for a few days
2006-09-15 08:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by gangstaboo 1 · 4⤊ 1⤋
i think your friends boyfriend is a bit slow or a virgin cause any guy that has had sex before would know this.
2006-09-15 09:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by boo1 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
They need to know, give them a chance to slow things down and be easy.
IT HURTS LIKE H*** THE 1ST TIME!
2006-09-15 08:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie 3 · 9⤊ 1⤋
When I was sixteen, I told my boyfriend when he tried to get me to have sex with him in his pickup truck.... I was like, "I've never done this before and I don't want my first time to be in a pickup"
The next weekend he made it a special occaision, his parents were away for the weekend, so he had a friend of his prepare his house while he came to pick me up for our date (he lived 30mins away from me). By the time we got back to his place, his friend was gone, there was nice music on and the lights were dimmed when we walked in the house.
He held my hand and led me upstairs to the sofa where he gently kissed every inch of my body, we made out for a while and did lots of petting before we both peeled one article of clothing off at a time while making our way slowly to his bedroom.
I felt so happy, so secure with him and the care he took in trying to make this a special night for me was more than I'd ever expect from a 17 year old. The sex was awesome, I had been warmed up so much that it wasn't painful at all, it was sheer ecstasy.
We humped like rabbits for about two years after that.... as many times day as we got the chance... and even after we broke up, we'd get back together for valentine's day and birthdays if neither of us had a steady date.
I'll never ever forget that boy... wow was he awesome. Even if he did want to deflower me in his pickup truck.... sometimes a little white-trashiness is cute.
2006-09-15 09:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by mutherwulf 5 · 33⤊ 2⤋
tell them
2006-09-15 08:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
How can they be bf and gf and not have talked about this before hand? What the heck do they discuss, the weather?
2006-09-15 08:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 49⤊ 1⤋
dont people just tell each other.
2006-09-15 09:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 2⤋
I wish I was her boyfriend; she'll remain just as tight for years to come!
2006-09-15 08:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 9⤋