What will you do if your boyfriend told you that he have no time for you bcz he is busy working and he wants to be a successful man, and he told you that he wants you to come with him to make his burden be light but he is oceans apart, but you can't go to him bcz you can't afford to go in their country, and he told you that he can't do anything for that.... but i'm seeing he is not late buying things when it comes to technology like new model of cellphone or any gadgets he wants... for one year i never asked him about money even if i'm needing help bcz i want him to analyse that if he cares for me or even if only just only a kind of offering but he never... i don't care about his money all i want is his attention that i hope that even a couple of minutes he will talk to me but he didn't do anything... is it his work or he just only saying it for alibi..... ?
2006-09-15 01:36:30 · 9 answers · asked by Lilly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This doesn't sound good. My initial reaction is to move on and find someone else. BUT I am hearing one side to the story so I am not fit to judge. Maybe you're not opening your mind to his side and talk to him. Give him a chance and ask someone who knows about both of you. Maybe you're right maybe you're not!
2006-09-15 01:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by C h e e z C ஐ k e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you only hang on cause of the way he once made you feel. You need to remember that person has changed, and not just cause your oceans apart!
You deserve someone who will give you more the a few minutes.
Some of it is work but it's excuses.
2006-09-15 01:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but if he really wanted to be with you, he'd find a way to make it happen, especially if he has money to blow on new gadgets. Move on, it's for your own good.
2006-09-15 01:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be telling him if he can't do anything for me, I sure as hell can't be doing anything for him. Good luck to him cause he's gonna need it. Then I'd find me another boyfriend.
2006-09-15 01:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you havent seen Legally Blonde.
2006-09-15 01:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new boyfriend that treats you right. this one is a lost cause.
2006-09-15 01:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's obsessed by his work...he wants to persue his dream...on the other words, he cares about his work more than you....
2006-09-15 01:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone that will be there for you and ditch the prick
2006-09-15 01:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by meandragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him tyme
2006-09-15 01:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋