say your boyfriend you family don't like him but; after yall get married they adore him
2006-09-15 01:35:51 · 9 answers · asked by kandiboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think I understood what you said. In my family, my sister broke up with her long-term boyfriend (of 8 yrs) to marry this other guy. She got pregnant almost immediately. The whole family didn't like the new guy since he knew about her bf and went for her anyway. Well, we were all wrong. The new guy turned out to treat her better, is a great father and husband. They have a great marriage. We were wrong and glad she didn't listen to us.
2006-09-15 01:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no clue what a "dicion" is.
Re: the rest of your question, maybe your family just needed to get to know him better.
Don't they teach basic English skills where you come from?
2006-09-15 01:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't know what a dicion is but if you make a bad decision, then yes because you can learn from it.
2006-09-15 01:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your family get to know him. Is there a reason why they don't like him. Maybe they see something that you do not. Love is blind. Do not get married unless you are absolutely 100% sure or it may lead to divorce later down the road. Wait and don't rush into anything.
2006-09-15 01:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by blueyes2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called reverse phycology. Your family didn't like him, because they didn't want to except him and then you both break-up.... that happens alot to family's, you bring a guy around they like and except him, you dump him. The have always adored your husband, they just didn't want to jump the gun when you were dating incase you dumped him. When you dump a guy or guy dumps you (and the family likes/adores him) your not the only one losing him, your whole family is.......... a patential son in-law, brother-in-law, new unckle and so forth. Its quite easy to see from my standing point. Your family never disliked him, they didn't want to get close incase you changed your mind or he left you. Blessed be..........
2006-09-15 01:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, we are human. That's how we learn...from the mistakes we make. No one can really tell us what to do , but try to point us in the right direction. I've made bad decisions and always gained something from it.
2006-09-15 01:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes that adoration is really a toleration from family for our sake.
2006-09-15 01:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its good to take a chance,it will make a difference.
2006-09-15 01:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it can work out fine
2006-09-15 01:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋