Historically, I've liked to hug the men I was dating/attracted to, and babies. But that's it! What's my problem?
2006-09-15 01:32:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi, Thanks, all.
My not liking to hug bugs me b/c other people seem to like it so much. So why am I different? And it's not just that I'm not a hugger. It grosses me out! Ick!
VERY rarely do I initiate a hug or am not wigged out by one.
2006-09-15 11:00:26 · update #1
I am kind of the same way.
I am just not a hugger.
I just don't go up and hug people but if they hug me, I let them.
I usually do feel a little uncomfortable, not sure why. Even my own family I don't usually hug.
I think maybe that I was raised that way.
My parents didn't do hugging.
So when I hug it is just out of my comfort zone.
Also it is just not my personality, I am not a touchy feely type of person.
So I don't think that you have a problem, just everyone is different.
You don't HAVE to go around hugging everyone, I think it is alright.
2006-09-15 03:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Bob A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only like to hug the people i love(my children). I think hugging is a lot of time a cultural thing. I know depending on where you life it is a common thing to see people hug who are just friends or family. I don't like hugging my great grandmother but i do it anyways( out of love and respect for her). Everyone is different and i wouldn't worry about it so much, though that raises the question of "Why does the fact you don't bother you so much?".
2006-09-15 01:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. You just like to have your own space. Me, for example, I love to hug and cuddle. But like I said everyone is different. Don't worry there is nothing wrong with you.
2006-09-15 01:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by diva4lyfe669 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know huging is so cute
2006-09-15 01:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey...........do u know.....huggin makes a worried person feel better.........
really.......
try it!!!
2006-09-15 04:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ah.......ha
2006-09-15 01:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋