Help me with these insecurities! I'm 30, separated with kids. Just graduated & just got a job...?

Question

I have this friend problem. When I first met her I saw the loneliness in her eyes.. if youre of the same gender you knew. That was the start of our good relationship. ..I say that she became my security emotionally bacuase I'm having a husband problem, so was she. .For 4yrs I was with her throught thick & thin we were unseparable..
Now that most of problems were resolved, work came into our lives, and also came her new friend... I notice we see each other less often, a phonecall from her once in a while, i ocassionally recieve a text message & emails from her. I thought, whats gonna be next?.. I miss her though sometimes I felt abandoned & used by her. I felt jealousy for her new friend which she might got the attention that should've been mine. Im not vocal type of person. Ending & forgetting the friendship really hurts to it comes once in a while in my thoughts..Its crazy but I'm not going to do that. It seems I cant get out of these anxieties..

Answer 1

you are a true friend.you don't have to talk everyday.if she has a nother problem she will want you by her side.I have friends that I only see if there's a problem or a death but our friendship will always be strong.

Answer 2

Sounds to me like this friend takes you for granted. Tell them how you feel and suggest that you find a way to reconnect or part ways peacefully. You will not be happy until you address your thoughts and concerns. Even if things don't work out as you had hoped, you will at least have some resolution.

Answer 3

your not crazy, just lonely. Go out and make some new friends. You will soon forget her fading away...

Answer 4

She should has her own life and so do you. Why don't you want to find the life belongs to you? Good luck!