2006-09-15 01:27:35 · 9 answers · asked by R I Y A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First, although you may feel like making an ultimatum such as, "You have to choose between her or me," this would not be the wisest course of action at this time. Your husband states that he and this woman are not having an affair, and though phone calls and expensive gifts are upsetting to you, they are not definitive proof that he has been unfaithful to you
2006-09-18 19:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him you understand men and women can be friends and you're ok with that. But if he ever crosses a certain line and sleeps with another woman, he will never see or hear from you again. And there's only one way to find that out. Other than that, you're cool with friendships.
2006-09-15 08:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK for your husband to have friends that are women at say, his work. But if he were to go out with them for drinks or whatever - that is wrong. Now if he were to invite you to join them, then that's fine. Tell him you're uncomfortable with it. Or get a hot guy friend - that should do the trick!
2006-09-15 08:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry. Sometimes our worries cause lotz of probs.Without seeming vry doubtful,try to know abt his activites.But nvr shud e know ur doubtful,if e is sincere,it'll hurt him more. Analyse evrything wit an open mind,nvr let jealousy creep in.I swear jealousy is our worst enemy.Where as u take care abt ur looks n be confident.
2006-09-15 08:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by simran v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All males are attracted to other females
some maybe 20% some 80%
U cannot help it. its in their nature
same way
All females are suspicious
some maybe 20% some 80%
U cannot help it. its in their nature.
According to me u should accept his friendship
with other females
and live a happy life.
2006-09-15 08:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by VIKRAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust him until you are provided with proof that you can't. If you can't trust him, then you don't have a true relationship and you might as well leave now.
2006-09-15 08:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust & Respect make a marriage. See what suits you more.
2006-09-15 08:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by Masked Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something, make it clear that nothing is going wrong.
at any cost do not let it to happen...
good luck
2006-09-15 08:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by MADDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it, it will go away
2006-09-15 08:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋