Okay, i drink everyday. I wanna try stop. i tried lowering da amount but 1ce i start i cant stop. I jst want peeps who can help me. Im trying 2 stop 4 my boyfrend. plz help me!
2006-09-15 01:24:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I jst want ur help. Ive got gay in my name. i jst need help!!!!!
2006-09-15 01:28:03 · update #1
My parents would kill me if i go 2 aa. an a doc. i wanna know if u know any ways 2 stop drinking. i go online wen im drunk only. wish i could change it.
2006-09-15 01:29:59 · update #2
R docs an AA allowed 2 tell?
2006-09-15 01:30:50 · update #3
ive jst vomitted blood. Do u tink dat has sumting 2 do wit it?
2006-09-15 04:41:08 · update #4
AA is anonymous - so your parent will never ever find out that you go. Give it a go - thats all i can say.
2006-09-20 13:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by CrazedPscyhoticKillerBunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a gay center in your area, call them. If not, look up AA on the web, and call them. Ask your questions about anonymity and what programs they have. Realize that you want to stop drinking for yourself, not for you bf but because you want a bf that's not an alchy. Hang out with different ppl that aren't all about drinking. Make a list of why you don't want to drink and all the crappy things that happen becuz you drink - and think about it next time you want a drink. Don't fool yourself into thinking you can have just one. Admitting your an alcoholic is the biggest step. Now, focus on doing something about it!
2006-09-15 04:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by Alex62 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can stop drinking for you...make up your mind and do it. I'm not an alcoholic but I had serious liver disease happen..and the doctors told me never to drink again..that was a few years ago and I never have....I never want feel that ill again...your liver is a pretty (vitally) important organ...You don't every wanna feel anywhere near as ill as I did...I was in the hospital for a long time...my liver has recovered..but they told me that if I drank alcohol, amongst other things like aspirin and tylenol that it would be the end of me....think about it now ..while you can do something about it.
2006-09-15 03:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are old enough to get help mate, and its always in confidence.
i went to AA 4 years ago and the docs as i was told... if i carried on drinking i would not see 35
i took the antabuse pills and wennt to AA a few times and now i have not had a drink in over 2 years!
its not easy but you can do it
if you need any advice mate just message me ok
x
2006-09-15 05:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're _+serious+_, get yourself to AA and to a doc. Explain what it is that you want, then follow their advice.
The doc can help with the withdrawal, AA can help with the desire to get drunk.
Additional info:
AA is +_anonymous_+, hence the name, Alcoholics Anonymous.
Doctors are not allowed to share info about their patients, at least in the U.S.A.
Vomiting blood is very serious. Go to the doc.
2006-09-15 01:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by credo quia est absurdum 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Baby, you have to stop not for your boyfriend but for yourself! Think of all the harm you are causing by the excess drinking. What you must do is practice (and I know it's hard) SELF-CONTROL and seek the help from your man in this endeavor. Let his love and support be a stronger motivation and drive than alcohol desires. When you feel like you can't stay away from alcohol anymore, ask him to hold you, go out to a park, play a sport, anything to get your mind off it!
But let me reassure you that unless you practice SELF-CONTROL, it's going to be impossible to stop.
2006-09-15 04:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen here.....there are sometimes when you ahve to do what is best for you and FORGET what others think...and that includes your parents. I think they'd rather have you ALIVE than to do something that could eventually change the entire course of your life because of an alcoholic beverage!!!! Do you want to live or do you want to die? You have to WANT to quit drinking. You have to WANT to live. And you have to accept that you ARE bigger than a bottle full of liquid. Don't get yourself together for your boyfriend. Yes, he's an inspiring reason but do it because you want to live and you want to be happy in this life. I wish you luck sweetie. I hope you'll think about AA or a doctor.
2006-09-15 05:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Why do you drink so much??
2) Are you happy in your relationship?
3) Why do you only go online when your drunk?
I think you have some issues here, you need counseling or at least be honest with yourself and your partner of what's really on your mind?????/
2006-09-15 11:13:07 · answer #9 · answered by Finally home 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get professional help ASAP.
Teenagers can become alcoholics in a matter of months; for adults, it may take years.
If you are truly, psychially addicted (as opposed to psychologically habituated), you may experience severe withdrawal symptoms that are potentially deadly.
Weaning off of alcohol or drugs hasn't been shown to be an effective method. You need to detoxify with assitence and get counseling.
2006-09-15 04:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by jesse_o_ellis 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋