2006-09-15 01:24:05 · 22 answers · asked by R I Y A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. You can’t make anyone love you and nobody can make you happy
2. Try all you want; you'll never change your partner. However, if you change yourself, your partner may change.
balance u think
2006-09-18 20:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Money will be your biggest argument. 2. The in-laws. 3. If he was a slob before you married him, he won't become a neat-freak at I do. 4. Anniversaries, birthdays, etc. suddenly become less important at I do. 5. If you have children, he instantly regresses to being an infant, also. 6. He admits no wrong. 7. He never admits when you are right. 8. Your lifestyle changes, but his does not. 9. Life is not always rainbows and butterflies. 10. Somehow you realize that despite items 1-9 you still love him more than anything.
2006-09-15 01:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by ncmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. You can't make anyone love you and nobody can make you happy.
2. Try all you want -- you'll never change your partner. However, if you change yourself, your partner may change.
3. People don't marry people; they marry illusions and fantasies. (What a surprise to discover that your partner is as human as you are.)
4. A real marriage begins just at the point where the illusion ends. The challenge of marriage is to discover who you married.
5. Love is only one of the reasons we choose a partner. (Sometimes, it's not the most important.)
6. Most likely, the qualities that now drive you crazy are the same ones that first attracted you to your partner.
7. It is impossible to go through a relationship without experiencing periods of pain and loneliness.
8. The greatest gift you can give your children is a loving marriage.
9. A marriage succeeds when each of us realizes that our partner's needs are at least as important as our own.
10. Marriage is the best opportunity to grow, overcome selfishness and learn how to love.
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2006-09-15 01:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ goddessofraine ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Reprinted with permission from www.wholefamily.com
1. You can't make anyone love you and nobody can make you happy.
2. Try all you want -- you'll never change your partner. However, if you change yourself, your partner may change.
3. People don't marry people; they marry illusions and fantasies. (What a surprise to discover that your partner is as human as you are.)
4. A real marriage begins just at the point where the illusion ends. The challenge of marriage is to discover who you married.
5. Love is only one of the reasons we choose a partner. (Sometimes, it's not the most important.)
6. Most likely, the qualities that now drive you crazy are the same ones that first attracted you to your partner.
7. It is impossible to go through a relationship without experiencing periods of pain and loneliness.
8. The greatest gift you can give your children is a loving marriage.
9. A marriage succeeds when each of us realizes that our partner's needs are at least as important as our own.
10. Marriage is the best opportunity to grow, overcome selfishness and learn how to love.
2006-09-15 01:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by wizjp 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
the married couple keep count of score (=20) of all the fights they have - for each partner it comes to half of that which is 10 - these are the ten terrifying things about marriage ...
2006-09-15 01:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For women's the truthful meaning of marriage:
long term relationship
financial security
compromise for the whole life
forget about your own self
allways live for your family
tell yourself you don't have any pehchan of yourself
allways say yes even though u have to say no
expecation allways from you
keep crying in yourself, can't discuss the actual feeling with anyone because of duniyadari
2006-09-17 06:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Hidimba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terrifying truths!!! Can not tell without the other side of the same coin. And the debit - credit is zero.
2006-09-15 01:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. No other men/woman
2. Clubbing days are over
3. Joint tax returns
4. For a woman- no more remote control
5. Compromise
6. Some fights
7. In laws are there to stay
8. What's yours is ours and what's mine is ours
9. The sex stops
10. Not having that new love feeling when you meet someone
2006-09-15 01:28:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you got to love this one forever, when you fight you got to stick it out you just cant run away. looks like cooking and cleaning had doubled, when someone flirts with ya you got to say sorry I'm married, all though your tired you still have for fill your partners needs. not only do you have your own problems now you got theirs too. worry about that person while therir gone in hopes they return safely, and DIVORCE, Now there are many good things about marriage too you just didnt ask that question.
2006-09-15 01:32:36 · answer #9 · answered by sugerglaze28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only one is, if you are independent, it is not that possible after marriage to be independent .... it depends on wht sort of independence you are asking.....
everything is cool.
marriage is the tie up for a life with another lie, to live along in all the good and bad....
there is nothing negative about marriage
2006-09-15 01:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by MADDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funds jealousy sharing the workload Compsassion Love sex Giving one hundred and ten% faith and church Sharing likes and dislikes Love of pals and kin nicely my chum it really is all i might want to arise with after 40 8 years of marriage, i'm positive there is extra.
2016-11-27 00:20:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋