He says he needs his own time, he browses his laptop, or his phone and it is really annoying. I have tried speaking to him about it and he says he will do anything for me but he won't do that! Should I leave him to it? He spends about half an hour each time, about 4-6 times a day.
2006-09-15 01:12:44 · 23 answers · asked by The Pink Wiggle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We do have a second toilet, but it is not that I need to use the toilet, he goes in there usually when I ask him to help me clean the house. Yes he reads the paper to in there too. He says that it is his office. He says that ALL men love to sit in the toilet for ages. I just want him to spend more time with me.
2006-09-15 01:31:26 · update #1
What is it with you women? It seems like every woman in a relationship in the world complains about this. Yes we do read in there. No, I personally do not use a laptop because it might be an electrical hazard in a bathroom, but I would not dream of critizing a man who does.
A man's toilet is his last bastion of refuge, a seat that he can always call his own. Do not mess with a man's toilet!
2006-09-15 01:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by a1mandrake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like that is the only place that he feels he can go to get any privacy and be left alone to have a private conversation or not have anyone hovering over his shoulder.
Personally, I think it is very weird and more than a little suspicious that he has to take a phone or a laptop in there. Very suspicious, indeed, and I would definitely have some trust issues with that.
2006-09-15 01:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants alone time, and the toilet is the only place he can get it. Perhaps you need to arrange an hour every day where the two of you can do your own stuff. I think he's giving you a sign that he wants his privacy.
2006-09-15 01:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should decorate your bed room as a toilet, BUT it can't happen. He needs no toilet but a quiet space where nobody would disturb him. I believe this is the key to your question. I have no futher information from you about his "own time" which he devotes to badly. You can solve your problem following the thread.
2006-09-15 01:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he really needed his own space/time he could talk to you about it, and not have to hide out in the bathroom...that's rather weird (especially several times a day)...he's hiding what he's doing from you 2 to 3 hours a day...
Something's up...keep your eyes open...
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2016-11-27 00:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have a swell bathroom . ours isn't its just what it is and nobody stays i never seen my sister's house out of state and she spent 20,000 remodeling hers and i wondered why? i don't like the thought he browses his lap top that sends off warning bells . as my friend's husband did the same and he was connecting with others in the wrong ways . tell him to relax in the bedroom and you will do something else
2006-09-15 01:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that sitting on the toilet for prolonged periods of time causes hemorrhoids.
2006-09-15 05:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by Elliem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez, wish my man would lock himself in the bathroom once in a while....lol!
Seriously though, that sounds a wee bit odd.....I can see, maybe once a day, but 4 to 6 times? At half hour intervals???? he is escaping with "something"...not sure what though.........
2006-09-15 05:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is where he gets his me time then let him alone. I bet you have plenty of me time and he probably needs some too.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-09-15 01:22:16 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋