well we dated for 3 years then split up and lost touch. i met up with him thru a mutual friend and we got back together.after we had dated for a year i fell pregnant and well we split up coz he had said he did not want a baby so i got a terminationand he went mad and told me he hated me. i am friends with his sister and he admitted he loved me but he has a psychotic girlfriend. i have just split up with my boyfriend and i know that i really love my ex but how do i get him back?they say in life you have two true loves i feel i found both of mine in my ex is it worth trying to get back together
2006-09-15 01:01:14 · 10 answers · asked by pammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not him, it's what feelings you got from him.
we all have CORE needs and feed them everyday.
What we THINK we want is not necessarily true.
We see it as a person, when it's the feelings we get from being with that person...there is a difference....
you had some of your croe needs fed by this guy at some point in your relationship....your needs are drawing to the source where it was once fed...the same feelings are not there and you may find yourself very frustrated.
get back to YOU... Learn about Your core needs and how you are choosing to feed them
2006-09-15 01:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have been furious if you had terminated my child with out discussing it with me first. I know it is your body and you are in control of it. But that is a very childish view as men do have strong feelings for even unborn children. I know that If I got my g/f pregnant and said that she wanted to keep it, I would have no trouble in marrying her. It will be very hard for him to look at you in the same way ever again. And what you did will always dwell on his mind.
Ex's always say that the new g/f is a psycho, thats standard denyial.
But good luck if you love him and he loves you there is no reason why any one should stand between you both. And just watch out for the psycho!!!
2006-09-15 08:13:16 · answer #2 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read your question carefully but i am not sure whether you meant the ex is the one who made you pregnant. I think you were crzay with him. He obtained your soul. If I were you, I would have two choices. The first, in case he is the right man worthy of being together in you subsequent life, give him a call, get in touch and retrieve your love; the second, otherwise, you just be mentally crazy, forget him.
2006-09-15 08:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be killed by his psychotic girlfriend, then maybe it will be a good idea to pursue it! On a serious note, there is a reason why he is your ex, he sounds a little nutty in my opinion, he made you terminate the child that you were carrying, then is upset that you did, what's with that? I say, move on and forget this guy, you may love him but let him pursue you, instead of you laying it all on the line. if he wants to be with you as much as you want to be with him, he will find his way back to you by dumping the crazo he's with and letting you know how much he misses and wants you back. PLease don't be the one to fight for the relationship, if he loves you as much as he says he does, his actions will definately speak louder than words!
2006-09-15 08:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have my own philosophy about love/winning love---like to listen???
"Love, if u fail, still you love, if you fail again keep it continue, one day you will won the love."
So love him, try to keep in touch and let him know that u love him, cant forget, cant think someone else, u care him..so what he likes u do that still...(and if he is your baby's father) tell him that what it does...how like him it does...etc...etc...
i asure you he will come back.u will won the love if u really can love and wait...
2006-09-15 08:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Russel Mehedi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you have to do, buy a oneway ticket to Peru if you have to but move on..... sooner the better for your peace of mind
2006-09-15 08:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not surprising. The surprise is that you are willing to admit it. Be nice. Life is full of surprises.
2006-09-15 08:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ever Learn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like OMG gag mee with a spoon!
2006-09-15 08:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it didn't work the first few times what makes you think it will work now?
2006-09-15 08:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by Maimee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're one sick puppy
2006-09-15 08:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋