anyone can help me on this? i have a girlfriend that lives far away, we've been apart more than a year and she does things that make me uneasy, lyk go partying n clubbing. i mean, i trust her, n she hasnt broken my heart yet, but i just love her too much n it seems i am only happy wen im talkin to her. n wen she isnt talkin 2 me im so miserable. i need a cure! should i just try to leave her alone for a bit? help pleasorz
2006-09-15 00:34:07 · 8 answers · asked by pogiboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have that natural protective attitude most men have. It's normal and it's a good thing. You have every right to feel uneasy about her partying ways. When someone places themselves in that kind of situation, bad things can happen since they can't even think straight. Everything is very "at the moment" or spontaneous. Please do talk to her about how this makes you feel. If she doesn't respect you, you may want to consider taking some time apart to work on yourself. Ask yourself if you can put up with this behavior, why are you attracted to her, etc. Take time to really figure yourself out. Also, when a person has his or her own life such as the case with your gf, it may bother the other person but in an unhealthy way. Ask yourself if this is the case...that you're generally uncomfortable about her having her own life. You need to have your own life, one that is seperate from the relationship. Trust me, it will make you feel so much better. When every waking moment of your life is thrown and placed into this relationship, you'll only stress, worry, sleep, eat, and drool this relationship.
2006-09-15 00:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sort of obsession is dangerous. Get over it. And don't u think that it is likely that when she goes to parties she might meet some guy who'd invite her to dance.....the rest u can figure on ur own.
2006-09-15 00:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by WORLD CLASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone for a while , If she comes back, talk to her & tell her that u will not take a backseat in her attitude like that again.
2006-09-15 00:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Robin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much longer will you be apart? If you are going to be apart much longer, you should end it. If you are going crazy now, how will your quality of life be in better in one week, one month or one year.
2006-09-15 00:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is such a thing as trust, you should do that!!! And if you don't feel that you can trust her, then it is time to move on.
2006-09-15 00:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try meeting her
2006-09-15 00:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave or you will cry misserably
2006-09-15 00:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by rakesh k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obsessed
2006-09-15 00:35:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋