Help me solve this:
All my friends said that I'm not a boy but a girl because I act like a girl. How to make that bad habit dissapear? Do you know how to be a real boy? Give me advice!
2006-09-14 23:21:18 · 12 answers · asked by Tony 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I would suggest to get in touch with your feminine side now that is still early. I think that in the future, it will come really handy when you start cross-dressing.
2006-09-14 23:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by mortisia2121 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at 33 years old I'm no longer a "girl" so I guess I can answer. Every man ever born has elements of both sexes in his physical being, and to greater or lesser degree in his persona also. Men raised in proximity to mostly women tend to be actually more masculine than those raised in more male surroundings. They have more of an instinct for what women really consider the best manly traits, such as confidence with the opposite sex, a more natural ability to express themselves, and are more likely to consider the needs of others. Don't be afraid of your own feelings, you owe nothing to those who are not developed enough to give others their own space. When you see such behavior in other people know that you're seeing their own insecurities, a fear that they themselves may usually deny because they have not yet developed the wisdom to recognize the more evolved among us. It is noble to bear the insults of the less developed, who far outnumber men of character and peace. You are not, and you cannot, be or ever become a "girl", no drugs, no surgery, no counciling, no inner desire, no act of legislature, can change your gender. You are who you are, learn that and you will find peace within yourself.
2006-09-15 04:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm...that's a tough problem you have there. Well, just be yourself there's no use changing yourself for others if you're not comfortable with the 'new' you. Every guy can be a little feminine at times, it just shows the balance of the Yin and the Yang in this chinese myth I was reading. You just seem to be leaning more to the feminine side. If you really wanna change you can just say...play more sport. Uh...I don't know, how do I explain this, I'm never aware of how I act myself.
2006-09-15 01:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tyson G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 00:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gender Identity is really complex. If you feel comfortable as a boy, but your friends are giving you hassle, then they need to grow up. Most of the things that they're seeing are societal constructions anyway.
2006-09-15 21:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a friend to introduce you some rugged activity. Join some sporting event. Get some sun tan.
2006-09-14 23:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just act like yourself and ignore your stupid "friends" who tell you to be something else. Don't be a follower. Be who you are before you forget who that is.
2006-09-14 23:24:48 · answer #7 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you said girls dont read but we are a curious creature so i just had to. seek out men who you think are real men and have them as a mentor, talk to them and seek their advice .
2006-09-17 10:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by cozjeanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if girls turn u on there is no problem...
after all smart people always act a little strange.
2006-09-14 23:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by fake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im gay so i don't realy know, but get into some sports and change your appierence a little. bt i think that you shouldn't be who your freinds want you to be only what you want to be
2006-09-15 02:38:50 · answer #10 · answered by j_papa123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋