My friends and I have decided its impossible to find men! No decent men speed date (no offense to any of them!), online dating is too desperate and the same applies as for SD...so what can we do?
2006-09-14 22:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Remember that you often meet someone when you are not trying, and in the most unusual places. I met my partner when we were both on holiday with family and friends, he just said 'hello' to me on the second day of our holiday, we had a drink that night, and that was it. Two and a half years on, we are living together (he moved 300 odd miles to move in with me), and are now planning our wedding. I was not looking to meet anyone at that time, I'd been single for four years and had resigned myself to the fact that at my age there are no decent men left! How wrong I was. I wish you lots of luck.
2006-09-14 22:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must go to places where men are. Sounds obvious but there you go. I don't mean bars or night clubs as the men at those places are certainly not looking for any type of long term relationship (in fact the shorter the better).
Looking for a man is like looking for a job. Do research, ask newly marrieds or engageds that you might know how they met.
Buy mens magazines and see where they hang out or what activities they enjoy that you might be able to use.
It can be hard work but the rewards will come - just you see.
2006-09-15 06:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Half (or close to half if you do not count those wanting a sex change) of the world's population are men or males. You have thin ones, fat ones, tall ones, short ones, young ones and old ones etc, etc. Of course if you start to be choosy, then the numbers start to dwindle e.g. if you say "no caucasians" that eliminates quite a few. If you say none over 40 that rules out a few more. You are using Boolean "and" if you are using the word "impossible". Try and you shall succeed, seek and you shall find! Good Luck.
2006-09-15 06:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know the men dont think the same about you and your friends but still go to those places or do speed dating....
2006-09-15 05:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by confused 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stopp giving of Desperate Singles vibes
Just go out and have fun, you might someone you might not
people can tell when people reaalyy want a bf and scares em off.....
Can only suggest otherwise try the usual church/religious social group/community or sports centre, interest group, evening class etc, or
draw up a list of qualities you looking for and then see if it is possible to dientify tyope of places might meet one, e.g. a professional = professional organisations
However a lot of the good guys are taken, and if you have a fantasy idea of ideal man nobody ever gonna reach your standards cos nobody is perfect and if they were anywhere near someobody alrwady got him honey
Chill girls that's the key
2006-09-15 06:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speed dating?
I met my significant other taking college classes, which is a nice place to meet people with similar interests. (To be precise, we were set up by our Romantics prof, who denied it for a while...but two years later, she's starting to take credit for it. :D
2006-09-15 05:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by angk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's a potential man?
2006-09-15 14:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by bob kerr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try joining a gym plenty of men there
2006-09-15 05:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♥fluffykins_69♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wtf is speed dating?
2006-09-15 05:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋