i started year 7 this year, and i knew no one, so i had to make firneds, as most people do. i made friends with these to girls eilish and grace. they are really nice, very opinionated and fun to be around. but lately me and eilish have been fighting over small things, but i consider her a friend. after a particularly large fight, i told her what i had written on my time capsule (which all year 7's had to make) about her. i wrote 'i know eilish is a true friend because we always have fights, but we always make up, they dont really mean anything. and she was like 'bullcrap erin, they mean there's something wrong with our friendship' and i was like, 'eilish, if u dont wanna be my friend, tell me' i had always felt a bit excluded because grace and eilish were always closer, but know she is really angry at me. and i went on my msn chat logs, and one time i was in a convo with the 3 of us, and it said she went off line, then i saw she had said to grace'can erin read this? i blocked her cause
2006-09-14 22:40:39 · 10 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she was pissing me off' that broke it fpor me. i started crying, and then i yelled at her over msn, like nothing really bad, just like, i cant believe u said that n everything, and know i dont know what to do. shes trying to apologise, but i dont know if i should accept it or not. sooo confused!
ezza
p.s she always finds minute problems, and then tells me grace has problems with me as well
2006-09-14 22:42:27 · update #1
If you have true friends, little things should not bother each other. People need to embrace each others differences. No one is perfect and at one point in our lives, we all do or say things we wish we hadn't.
They were friends with each other before they met you. They have a bond. They accepted you into their circle and made a different bond. If she is trying to apologize, you can accept the apology. Sit down with both of them and talk to them. Tell them you appreciate all they have to offer in your friendship. Tell them what you like and tell them what things hurt your feelings. That is what friendship is all about. If one of you is having a bad day, tell each other. Forgive each other for what has happened. Give each other a hug and continue to grow in your friendship.
Embrace your differences. If everyone were the same, it would be boring. My best friend drives me crazy but I know she is not me and she has the little quirks that make her who she is just like you and your friends. Don't let the little things bother you. Make a pact to not hurt each others feelings on purpose. Best of luck to you.
2006-09-14 22:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the start of many more b itches in your life! All through high school we go through this, honestly dont waste your time, if she knows you couldnt care less wether you liked her or not then maybe she might have a change of heart, girls get into the line of picking on the weakest girl in the group and it wont stop until you put a stop to it.
2006-09-15 05:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this, but there are ppl like that everywhere. Every job you will have, every party you attend, every pto meeting you go to, everywhere. Just stick by your standards. Dont bring yourself to their level by talking about others. Anytime you here one talking about someone, walk away. Don't fall into it. You can't change their attitudes, but you don't have to fall into it. I have found that usually the week weed themselves out. She is badmouthing you because she is jealous of you. She is trying to make you look bad because you aren't doing it on your own. Ignore her. Just continue being nice to her, but don't trust her. Because ppl like that will twist anything you say into something bad. You may even choose to stay away from her. You will make more friends. Trust God and follow Him and you can't go wrong.
2006-09-15 05:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down and chill out. Don't be so needy. Get some more friends.
2006-09-15 05:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cud u pls be a little too the point.....be cool nd positive....
2006-09-15 05:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Aparna B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ble ur not confused
2006-09-15 05:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't woory all are confused...
2006-09-15 05:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by otteri selvakumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand
2006-09-15 05:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what is your question?
2006-09-15 05:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cooooooool.....................
2006-09-15 05:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋